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Post by solodriver on Apr 2, 2019 2:34:07 GMT -5
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Post by elkclan2 on Apr 2, 2019 13:04:57 GMT -5
That's awesome. I will definitely celebrate.
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Post by ironhamster on Apr 3, 2019 2:41:50 GMT -5
Congratulations to her, but, somehow, I was expecting sexier pics. My pics celebrating my divorce would not be printable outside a fetish site. Ijs...
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Post by shamwow on Apr 3, 2019 11:34:13 GMT -5
My thoughts are more in line with the comments on the article. Not particularly classy.
I descended the courthouse steps, took off my ring, and started the next chapter in my life.
I'm sure the kids really like the photos of mom stepping on the photo of dad. My ex is a piece of crap but I wouldn't do that.
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Post by greatcoastal on Apr 3, 2019 15:48:54 GMT -5
I'm sure the kids really like the photos of mom stepping on the photo of dad. My ex is a piece of crap but I wouldn't do that. I agree with you, for the most part. However we have had members on here say, my children backed me, supported me, said they would even testify against my spouse, and said,what took you so long? We are glad for you, and you made the right decision. One thing I have decided to do, is call their mother by her first name, whenever I have to mention her. I want to be respectful of my childrens position, while continuing to keep things parallel and distant. |
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Post by baza on Apr 3, 2019 18:47:47 GMT -5
If you follow the link to another link "Tiltin My Lens" a video grab appears where the chick holds up a note saying - "I'd wish you all the best, but you've already had it" and another bit where that photo (that she is stepping on) is set alight.
Anyway, get a few people together, add a camera to the scenario, then chuck some alcohol into the mix, and there ya go.
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Post by DryCreek on Apr 3, 2019 19:16:20 GMT -5
I’m all for fun-themed photo shoots (not what I’d call this one). Too much energy focused on looking backward.
Better to scrub the slate clean and celebrate a new launch! I too expected some racier “new me” kind of scenes.
I’ve also heard of folks throwing a divorce party, a la New Year’s. That sounds like a fun way to tell the world and signal that it’s not a taboo topic.
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Post by shamwow on Apr 3, 2019 22:11:58 GMT -5
I'm sure the kids really like the photos of mom stepping on the photo of dad. My ex is a piece of crap but I wouldn't do that. I agree with you, for the most part. However we have had members on here say, my children backed me, supported me, said they would even testify against my spouse, and said,what took you so long? We are glad for you, and you made the right decision. One thing I have decided to do, is call their mother by her first name, whenever I have to mention her. I want to be respectful of my childrens position, while continuing to keep things parallel and distant. With the kids, I refer to my ex as "mom" or "your mom". I believe she does likewise. The kids know it isn't "mom AND dad" any longer. But we are their mom and their dad. At least that works for us. |
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Post by greatcoastal on Apr 6, 2019 8:12:17 GMT -5
I agree with you, for the most part. However we have had members on here say, my children backed me, supported me, said they would even testify against my spouse, and said,what took you so long? We are glad for you, and you made the right decision. One thing I have decided to do, is call their mother by her first name, whenever I have to mention her. I want to be respectful of my childrens position, while continuing to keep things parallel and distant. With the kids, I refer to my ex as "mom" or "your mom". I believe she does likewise. The kids know it isn't "mom AND dad" any longer. But we are their mom and their dad. At least that works for us. Thanks for your response. I do find myself using " your mom" often. However, when talking with anyone else I have tried to get used to using her " first name" instead of saying " my wife". I am still getting used to saying " ex wife" when talking about her to others. Especially when talking to my girlfriend! |
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Post by shamwow on Apr 6, 2019 17:29:02 GMT -5
With the kids, I refer to my ex as "mom" or "your mom". I believe she does likewise. The kids know it isn't "mom AND dad" any longer. But we are their mom and their dad. At least that works for us. Thanks for your response. I do find myself using " your mom" often. However, when talking with anyone else I have tried to get used to using her " first name" instead of saying " my wife". I am still getting used to saying " ex wife" when talking about her to others. Especially when talking to my girlfriend! and I used to each call our spouses "honey". We call each other "baby" but slipped up a couple times early on. No biggie. I have never called BOC by my ex wife's name directly, but my first name is the same as her ex husband's name so she is (un)lucky there. |
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Post by baza on Apr 6, 2019 18:06:31 GMT -5
Ms enna calls me a name based on the fact that I come from Victoria whereas she comes from New South Wales.
Victoria is south of New South Wales so she dubbed me "The Mexican" or "mex". It stuck.
I call her a name based on the fact that I like to fuck her and shoot my jiz into or over her. I call her "Spurt" mostly.
I refer to her on here as Ms enna as when she was an active member here she was "enna30".
The usual "honey" "baby" "darling" get used a bit too.
I refer to my ex (and now passed on) former spouse by her name when talking to people who knew her, "My ex" when talking to people who didn't know her.
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Post by workingonit on Apr 7, 2019 6:50:06 GMT -5
I wonder if it is a sign or not that my h and I never had pet names. I have pet names for so many people! Pe names sprout from affection and playfulness. We have never had that.
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Post by Handy on Apr 7, 2019 17:02:29 GMT -5
Pet names in my area are often based on something a person does that is at least special at one time.
I never had the habit of using popular semi romantic terns like "babe," sweetie" or "honey." "Slim" or "fuzzy" I have used to make reference to other men.
I am not Native American but those kids get a family name and some get another name based on something they did or an "earned name." I heard one story where an "earned name" resulted in this kid being named "spoon finder." A Caucasian kid was called "flat top" because he usually/always had what is called a "flat top" hair cut. For a while I was "green giant" because I was the tallest person around and I often wore a green shirt. Some pet names were also off-shoots of their last names. Looking back, some names weren't so nice.
If people used John Doe, you were an outsider. If people called you by your earned name, like "flattop" you were an insider and part of the local tribe.
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