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Post by angeleyes65 on Mar 16, 2019 14:59:10 GMT -5
Just met my ex at the bank to remove my name off what was our joint account. And signed the titles on each others cars. That was the last things. My divorce was final Jan 7th. Taxes are done and refund split. House refinanced and quit claim and qdro forms signed. I breathe a collective sigh of relief. If he doesn't get with the program and quit trying to manipulate me into going back I never HAVE to see him again. I hope eventually we can be friends for the kids and grandkids sake but only he can make that possible. My boyfriend's divorce was final Feb 28th. Now he is left with severing all the ties..titles, bank accounts, house etc. Next step he's buying a house and we are moving in together. We already are living together in my apartment but he has his own This will be me letting go of the security of having my own place for 2 years. I'm confident this is forever but still hard treading those waters after ending long marriages. And navigating how to set stuff up when you aren't married, are older and have to consider things like retirement , death and his and her adult children. To the next 30 years!
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Post by misssunnybunny on Mar 17, 2019 8:04:55 GMT -5
Best to you for a very happy future in Opposite Land!
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Post by baza on Mar 18, 2019 5:30:02 GMT -5
Imagine all the logistical matters you'll be dealing with as you two merge your lives into a unit Sister angeleyes65 . Imagine if you were trying to do so with the weight of ILIASM concrete boots on as well. And imagine dealing with this shoulder to shoulder with someone who actually gives a shit. You've traded up to a way better set of problems Sister angeleyes65 . You've done well.
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Post by angeleyes65 on Mar 18, 2019 7:40:51 GMT -5
@ Baza I agree the navigation is much easier with someone you have open communication with and can take comfort in each others strengths. As much baggage we walked away with, it gives us only little hiccups at this point. But some of the pluses, we are so grateful and still amazed by the little differences. We work so well on day to day running of the house. We take care of each other it isnt one sided. And we relish the time together any chores that we can put off until the other is working we do. And we sit snuggled up with electronic devices put down for the most part.
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