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Post by solodriver on Dec 29, 2018 21:24:29 GMT -5
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Post by baza on Dec 29, 2018 21:55:06 GMT -5
Most refusers know that it is a good idea to let Charlie make contact with the ball now and then, and to make the contact as random and unpredictable as possible so Charlie never quite knows where he is.
"Intermittent Reward System" An excellent control mechanism.
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Post by Handy on Dec 29, 2018 21:59:48 GMT -5
Charles Schultz may or may not have not lived in a SM but he knew about them and was sly enough to put it in news papers without anyone being the wiser. That is until some of us in ILIASM made the connections.
At least it gives us something to illustrate our point about what it feels like to deal with something that feels so unfair to us and the refuser justifies their lack of cooperation with all of their excuses.
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Post by baza on Dec 29, 2018 22:19:45 GMT -5
Then, there's the far more likely motivation. That Lucy is simply disinterested in sex generally - and/or - disinterested in sex with you specifically.
And it is not a crime to be disinterested in sex generally, nor to be disinterested in sex specifically with you.
And under those circumstances, Lucys' behaviour is perfectly logical and understandable.
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Post by Handy on Dec 30, 2018 3:57:09 GMT -5
If Lucy is disinterested she should avoid even talking about football. She is just a football (cock) tease.
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Post by solodriver on Dec 30, 2018 13:30:31 GMT -5
If Lucy is disinterested she should avoid even talking about football. She is just a football (cock) tease. I can see it now. She's dressed very sexy in wonderful lingerie and she says "O Honey come see what I have for you?"
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Post by deadzone75 on Dec 30, 2018 18:08:08 GMT -5
If Lucy is disinterested she should avoid even talking about football. She is just a football (cock) tease. Lucy didn't want to give it to Charlie Brown, but she wanted to give it to Schroder in the worst way, yet he didn't want it from her.
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Post by baza on Dec 30, 2018 19:57:13 GMT -5
If Lucy is disinterested she should avoid even talking about football. She is just a football (cock) tease. Lucy didn't want to give it to Charlie Brown, but she wanted to give it to Schroder in the worst way, yet he didn't want it from her. Charlie holds the key to this scenario. He always did.....if he is prepared to use his key.
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Post by misssunnybunny on Dec 30, 2018 20:37:17 GMT -5
Charlie goes through he same thing every year with Lucy, and even *knows* in his gut that he cannot trust Lucy will follow through and not move the football. I looked through all the comics, and somewhere in the middle years, he had the opportunity to "kick the football" with another girl, and backed out of it, not sure if he could trust her (in the end hurting her feelings). Pretty apt analogy for all of us who have experienced an SM: we get used to repeating the same mistakes over and over, hoping *this time* will be different, and we can't see a good thing when it is in front of us/learn to completely distrust the intentions of others (takes some time to heal from this). We all deserve a football partner we can trust to hold the ball for us; getting to that point is different for each of us, and I truly hope that all here are able to find it.
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Post by solodriver on Dec 30, 2018 20:43:42 GMT -5
Extra thumbs up for your response misssunnybunny!
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Post by misssunnybunny on Dec 30, 2018 21:08:13 GMT -5
Extra thumbs up for your response misssunnybunny! Thank you!
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