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Post by baza on Jan 6, 2019 20:01:55 GMT -5
Interesting to note that of the 10 members who responded directly to the question, 9 said "no".
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Post by Handy on Jan 6, 2019 21:44:18 GMT -5
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Post by lwoetin on Jan 7, 2019 2:23:31 GMT -5
Hell yeah! But I don't see her initiating in the near future.
We were spending time in bed and she asked me "How long are we going to keep doing this? A year or....?" I told her I don't know how to answer that. She said, Not until we die.
She asked me, Don't you think you are selfish?
I'm not sure if I said No. I don't feel selfish at all.
I asked her, Don't you feel selfish if you don't help your spouse with his need?
She didn't answer. She wasn't upset.
I told her she looks beautiful and I fantasize about her.
I was watching the movie Disobedience and there was this lesbian scene with the lovely Rachel McAdams and her partner. Her O was very convincing. Give her an Oscar (although I suspect it was not acting). I wish my wife would O-ffer that.
Yes, I would take an offer of charity.
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Post by Handy on Jan 7, 2019 12:24:37 GMT -5
I would go for charity sex if it wasn't presented as some duty she really didn't want to do or it didn't have strings attached.
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Post by isthisit on Jan 7, 2019 15:54:43 GMT -5
No, not at all.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 8, 2019 18:21:20 GMT -5
Two months ago: Yes. Now: No.
The whole things just isn't worth it. It's like having to do all of the work of an amazing gourmet meal but the end result is frozen dinner. I'm not putting in the effort anymore.
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Post by workingonit on Jan 9, 2019 20:44:37 GMT -5
Two months ago: Yes. Now: No. The whole things just isn't worth it. It's like having to do all of the work of an amazing gourmet meal but the end result is frozen dinner. I'm not putting in the effort anymore. Nice analogy. It is interesting to pass through all the stages of this shit hole, no? I am continually amazed at my capacity to face new levels of managing this crap. |
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Post by carl on Jan 10, 2019 4:47:30 GMT -5
Very unlikely now days. I would just rather not go there. Lack of sincerity would be too much of a turn off.
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Post by lifeinwoodinville on Jan 25, 2019 23:12:26 GMT -5
If my wife agreed to sex I would not take her up on it. Historically speaking her idea of sex is which of us is going to be on top? I learned so much from my outsourcing partners and my tastes in sex have changed drastically since my last sexual encounter with my wife, over four years ago. I remember when I showed her a cock ring and explained what it's for, she looked at me like I had just told her that I wanted to put my hand in the garbage disposal in then sink and turn it on. Her head would probably explode if I told her what I like now.
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Post by Handy on Jan 25, 2019 23:34:40 GMT -5
lifeinwoodinville, if your W had trouble with a cock-ring, how is it some women will do almost anything to get pregnant. Trying to get my W knocked-up, I found not much is off the table.
BTW, the best sex for me ever.
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Post by michael on Jan 28, 2019 9:05:21 GMT -5
I could of fucked my wife last night. She striped in the laundry room because I was upset about her usual shit. I refused her. Probably shouldn’t have though because later I tried in bed but she ignored me as usual. So I went to my usual sleeping place. The couch. I hate fucking while fighting. It would have been a huge effort even to get it up. Fuck her. She probably knew that. That is why she did that. Now she will probably call me a refuser.
Oh. She is talking about leaving now. I don’t know what to think. Whether I should be happy or sad. We’ll have to see though. Probably just an idle threat.
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Post by Handy on Jan 28, 2019 16:06:22 GMT -5
Michael, from reading both women's and men's stories, never refuse a woman's offer. If she turns you down, that is equivalent to a negative one point. Generally if a man turns down a woman, that counts as a negative 2 to 5 points, depending on the woman. That is my estimate from reading about messed up relationships for 10+ years.
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Post by jim44444 on Feb 4, 2019 2:59:21 GMT -5
This thread reminded me of this quote -
"If a woman sleeps alone it puts a shame on all men. God has a very big heart, but there is one sin He will not forgive. If a woman calls a man to her bed and he will not go.”
― Nikos Kazantzakis, Zorba the Greek
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