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In just 48 hours from the moment of this post........ Oct 24, 2018 5:40:48 GMT -5 warmways, misssunnybunny, and 11 more like this

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Post by thebaffledking on Oct 24, 2018 5:40:48 GMT -5

She will be walking through my door with her suitcases.....not for a visit, but to stay forever. The 4.5 years of waiting is finally coming to an end......but thank God we didn't know when we met how LONG it would take to get to this point!

We're both pretty private people and not much into the social media, but I will try and return now and then with some news and the occasional HAPPY picture!

I wish you ALL the same peace and joy and love, whether it comes from staying or leaving. We ALL deserve to live that life.

In the betrayal of his love he awakened
To face a world of cold reality

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In just 48 hours from the moment of this post........ Oct 24, 2018 6:06:59 GMT -5 misssunnybunny, thebaffledking, and 2 more like this

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Post by baza on Oct 24, 2018 6:06:59 GMT -5

Coincidently, in 48 hours I will have been out of my ILIASM deal for 9 years.

But this is your post Brother thebaffledking and the start of another chapter in your story.
Sincere congratulations to you (both).

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In just 48 hours from the moment of this post........ Oct 24, 2018 6:29:36 GMT -5 via mobile thebaffledking and TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo like this

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Post by shamwow on Oct 24, 2018 6:29:36 GMT -5

Oct 24, 2018 5:40:48 GMT -5 thebaffledking said:

I'm still a little less than 2 years and a lot of airplane trips out and this serves as inspiration. Thanks for posting, brother, and congrats!

Sham's Law #1: Everything in life is simple. First you figure out what you want. Second, you figure out how to get it. Third you do it. The first step, unfortunately happens to be the hardest.

thebaffledking Full Member Posts: 329 Age Range: 51-55	In just 48 hours from the moment of this post........ Oct 24, 2018 7:48:24 GMT -5 shamwow and TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by thebaffledking on Oct 24, 2018 7:48:24 GMT -5 Thanks, Shammy.....you inspired me, too.....we had some good chats that really kept me pushing forward. Thank YOU!
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