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tsm
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A year out today Oct 20, 2018 2:42:34 GMT -5 via mobile misssunnybunny, Vitruvius, and 7 more like this

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Post by tsm on Oct 20, 2018 2:42:34 GMT -5

Just thought I’d celebrate one year to the day since officially separating.
Where I live this is the minimum requirement to file for divorce, and I’m gonna do that soon!

Has been a crazy year, moved house 6 times, changed jobs twice, moved halfway across the country, and found someone who makes me very happy indeed.
I have found peace and contentment.
No, life isn’t perfect, but looking back on one year ago, it is almost unrecognisable.

My ex seems to have found some peace also.
She seems a lot happier and more stable.
Pretty sure it will be a painless joint application divorce filing and it will all be offically over....

Last Edit: Oct 20, 2018 2:43:05 GMT -5 by tsm

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A year out today Oct 20, 2018 4:41:48 GMT -5 thebaffledking, shamwow, and 1 more like this

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Post by baza on Oct 20, 2018 4:41:48 GMT -5

....and you will have traded off the intractible problems of being in an ILIASM deal...and replaced them with the far more manageable problems of how you conduct yourself, and your relationships from here-on in.

You've done well.

worksforme2 Senior Members Posts: 3,347 Age Range: 70+	A year out today Oct 20, 2018 5:17:06 GMT -5 thebaffledking, shamwow, and 1 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by worksforme2 on Oct 20, 2018 5:17:06 GMT -5 One year out and you're right, it's time to celebrate. Congrats on finding a relationship that makes you happy. I haven't had that good fortune as yet but I am ever the optimist.

elkclan2 Senior Member Posts: 515	A year out today Oct 20, 2018 13:21:19 GMT -5 shamwow and tsm like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by elkclan2 on Oct 20, 2018 13:21:19 GMT -5 Happy Separata-versary!

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A year out today Oct 20, 2018 15:58:32 GMT -5 via mobile tsm likes this

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Post by shamwow on Oct 20, 2018 15:58:32 GMT -5

Oct 20, 2018 2:42:34 GMT -5 tsm said:

Unrecognizable is so true, isn't it? Crazy is also a good word. So is imperfect.

Congrats

Sham's Law #1: Everything in life is simple. First you figure out what you want. Second, you figure out how to get it. Third you do it. The first step, unfortunately happens to be the hardest.

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A year out today

Post by tsm on Oct 20, 2018 2:42:34 GMT -5

Post by baza on Oct 20, 2018 4:41:48 GMT -5

Post by worksforme2 on Oct 20, 2018 5:17:06 GMT -5

Post by elkclan2 on Oct 20, 2018 13:21:19 GMT -5

Post by shamwow on Oct 20, 2018 15:58:32 GMT -5

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