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TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo
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How to get love from someone who’s guarded Oct 4, 2018 16:28:26 GMT -5 via mobile misssunnybunny likes this

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Post by TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo on Oct 4, 2018 16:28:26 GMT -5

I came across this and it made me think.
Sometimes I feel like an real idiot when it comes to relationships.

Thought others on here might get something from it.

medium.com/@krisgage/how-to-get-love-from-someone-whos-guarded-or-won-t-open-up-e2ed6bcbc652

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How to get love from someone who’s guarded Oct 4, 2018 21:00:05 GMT -5 via mobile DryCreek, northstarmom, and 3 more like this

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Post by jim44444 on Oct 4, 2018 21:00:05 GMT -5

How to get love from someone who is guarded?
Don't bother, just move on.

Even if you are successful you will screw up somewhere in the future and be back to posting on ILIASM.

"Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity."

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baza Senior Members Tread your own path Posts: 5,556	How to get love from someone who’s guarded Oct 4, 2018 21:29:02 GMT -5 jim44444, northstarmom, and 5 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by baza on Oct 4, 2018 21:29:02 GMT -5 Sub title - "How To Get Someone To Act Completely Contrary To Their Nature" Good luck with that one.

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How to get love from someone who’s guarded Oct 5, 2018 5:34:01 GMT -5 via mobile petrushka, jim44444, and 1 more like this

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Post by tamara68 on Oct 5, 2018 5:34:01 GMT -5

the source of this article doesn't seem to be the most credible or reliable. it is just someones opinion.
personally I think Baz is a far more credible medium.

warmways Full Member Posts: 469 Age Range: 56-60	How to get love from someone who’s guarded Oct 5, 2018 6:13:04 GMT -5 greatcoastal likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by warmways on Oct 5, 2018 6:13:04 GMT -5 Or,save your energy and pursue someone who isn’t a love avoidant. I keep thinking this article is supposed to be a joke.

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How to get love from someone who’s guarded Oct 5, 2018 8:25:27 GMT -5 warmways, DryCreek, and 2 more like this

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Post by Deleted on Oct 5, 2018 8:25:27 GMT -5

Oct 5, 2018 6:13:04 GMT -5 warmways said:

Or,save your energy and pursue someone who isn’t a love avoidant.

I keep thinking this article is supposed to be a joke.

I don't think it's a joke, it is just a phenomenal amount of cluelessness.

My summary:

"Jump through lots of hoops to get me to love you, and in response I won't do much at all to make you feel secure in my love. But deep down I'll be happier which is all I really care about."

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How to get love from someone who’s guarded

Post by TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo on Oct 4, 2018 16:28:26 GMT -5

Post by jim44444 on Oct 4, 2018 21:00:05 GMT -5

Post by baza on Oct 4, 2018 21:29:02 GMT -5

Post by tamara68 on Oct 5, 2018 5:34:01 GMT -5

Post by warmways on Oct 5, 2018 6:13:04 GMT -5

Post by Deleted on Oct 5, 2018 8:25:27 GMT -5

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