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Post by sweetplumeria on Sept 23, 2018 23:05:41 GMT -5
Today, while I always want to say my husband is in the wrong, I am questioning who I am.
My sister called me and said 'since you and our brother don't get along you can have special time with mom now and he can do what he wants tomorrow.' My mom said she wanted cake snd icecream. I obliged my siblings and stayed away. I lied to my mom so she would still have fun for her birthday.
Maybe I am the bad guy. I just don't know anymore.
I have felt pretty crummy all day knowing my siblings don't want me at our mother's birthday celebration.
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Post by ironhamster on Sept 27, 2018 21:39:39 GMT -5
Today, while I always want to say my husband is in the wrong, I am questioning who I am. My sister called me and said 'since you and our brother don't get along you can have special time with mom now and he can do what he wants tomorrow.' My mom said she wanted cake snd icecream. I obliged my siblings and stayed away. I lied to my mom so she would still have fun for her birthday. Maybe I am the bad guy. I just don't know anymore. I have felt pretty crummy all day knowing my siblings don't want me at our mother's birthday celebration. You did as your sister requested, even though it hurt to do so. It sounds to me like you are a very giving person. Perhaps, even, too giving. I think that tends to be true for most of the refused. I think the rejection can permeate us to the core, and cause other issues in the rest of our lives if we are not careful.
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