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Post by saarinista on Oct 17, 2018 20:53:45 GMT -5
dang, guys, we have some lousy marriages here! why are we staying? (she asks herself. )
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Post by Deleted on Oct 17, 2018 21:10:16 GMT -5
I'm actually surprised. I would still go on vacations with my wife even we were sexless.
Went to Cancun twice without getting any. But still managed to have a good time. I'd hang at the beach, she'd hang by the pool.
Maybe my marriage at its worst was not as bad as I thought!
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Post by h on Oct 18, 2018 7:08:07 GMT -5
Today's question for those in SMs: Knowing that you won't get any sex, would you still look forward to vacations alone with your spouse? No. I'm the only one who has to stress about paying for vacations. I'd rather just stay home if I'm guaranteed not to get any. |
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Post by Handy on Oct 18, 2018 10:48:25 GMT -5
Not a vacation but yesterday I went to a mid-scale place for lunch, alone, again.
No use being upset. That is the way it is and I am not going to change my W.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 18, 2018 12:16:08 GMT -5
Today's question: What is your guilty food pleasure?
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Post by javba on Oct 18, 2018 12:19:38 GMT -5
Today's question: What is your guilty food pleasure? Pakoras Vegetable fried, chickpea fritters nicely seasoned with spices and served with chutney  |
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Post by jim44444 on Oct 18, 2018 13:04:21 GMT -5
I take vacations without the W but in a group concept for multiday bike rides. I enjoy those times.
I also take family vacations with the W and have accepted that there will be no sex but I have fun withe the kids and grandkids.
We take a cruise each year and at least one week somewhere with just the W and I. We have fun, we travel well together. However, it does piss me off that there is no sex on these couple trips. It is compounded by the memories of our younger days when getaways were a fuck fest.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 18, 2018 13:07:37 GMT -5
I take vacations without the W but in a group concept for multiday bike rides. I enjoy those times. I also take family vacations with the W and have accepted that there will be no sex but I have fun withe the kids and grandkids. We take a cruise each year and at least one week somewhere with just the W and I. We have fun, we travel well together. However, it does piss me off that there is no sex on these couple trips. It is compounded by the memories of our younger days when getaways were a fuck fest. Yup, that is what things were like with me. |
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Post by workingonit on Oct 18, 2018 13:51:24 GMT -5
I really don't know why we never had vacations together. We did not have any money in the early days and then we had kids right away. He never ever comes with me to see my family as it makes him uncomfortable. It just set a trend. I go on solo vacations or trips with my family or my kids. He goes solo or with a child.
I tried to get him to go on a vacation with me but he was not interested. That was years ago when I was still trying.
When I am just in it I know it is not great but when I explain it to others I really see how fucking bereft my marriage is.
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Post by h on Oct 18, 2018 14:17:42 GMT -5
Today's question: What is your guilty food pleasure? People feel guilty about food? But why? |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 18, 2018 14:24:33 GMT -5
Today's question: What is your guilty food pleasure? People feel guilty about food? But why? Eating something irresistible that you really shouldn't eat? |
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Post by h on Oct 18, 2018 14:39:48 GMT -5
People feel guilty about food? But why? Eating something irresistible that you really shouldn't eat? Usually when I'm eating something, thoughts of should or shouldn't never cross my mind. Food is made to be eaten or it wouldn't be called food. To say a food shouldn't be eaten is to deny that food its identity as a food. |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 18, 2018 16:08:18 GMT -5
Eating something irresistible that you really shouldn't eat? Usually when I'm eating something, thoughts of should or shouldn't never cross my mind. Food is made to be eaten or it wouldn't be called food. To say a food shouldn't be eaten is to deny that food its identity as a food. You are one of those slim people, aren't you? 😁 |
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Post by javba on Oct 18, 2018 16:21:00 GMT -5
Usually when I'm eating something, thoughts of should or shouldn't never cross my mind. Food is made to be eaten or it wouldn't be called food. To say a food shouldn't be eaten is to deny that food its identity as a food. You are one of those slim people, aren't you? 😁 LOL Look guys depending upon your BMI any food can be a guilty pleasure |
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Post by jim44444 on Oct 18, 2018 16:33:27 GMT -5
Today's question: What is your guilty food pleasure? Pringles. |
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