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Post by warmways on Aug 10, 2018 0:42:39 GMT -5
Happy Friday😌
Tomorrow I meet attorney *again* at 9 a. Calles her Wednesday because sexlessness and feeling alone/without love just sucks. It isn’t tenable.
She seems smart/knowledgeable and during our first appointment several months ago made it seem like it was doable. By that i mean: not too much drama.
We’ll see.
Please wish me luck. I’m so scared.
I’m up way way too late again as insomnia likes to visit me when I’m stressed. 😆😂💤 Thank you all for being there!
warmways
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Post by baza on Aug 10, 2018 3:22:22 GMT -5
You've done well to get up to the line again Sister warmways . Particularly after that aborted attempt back in Oct/Nov last year - which you doubtless have learned a heap from. Good luck with this launch.
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Post by workingonit on Aug 10, 2018 5:04:25 GMT -5
Best of luck! These concrete steps are affirmations of self respect! Let us know how it goes
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Post by greatcoastal on Aug 10, 2018 7:12:42 GMT -5
"You can't score if you don't step up to the plate".
Take the day off and think about it after seeing the attorney. Call a friend and go out for dinner! You deserve it!
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Post by northstarmom on Aug 10, 2018 7:16:50 GMT -5
Congrats for taking this scary step. Do take notes. It could be worth it to bring a friend.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 10, 2018 7:46:16 GMT -5
Good luck to you! I saw 2 attorneys and a mediator myself and finally went back to the female attorney I liked the best 2 years after the 1st visit to formally file.
The attorney visit (or multiple visits!) is a very important step and I’m proud of you for taking it. You got this! Keep stepping forward! Hugs.
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Post by misssunnybunny on Aug 10, 2018 10:36:57 GMT -5
I was nervous/scared too. Take notes. I brought a list of questions, blank copies of the divorce paperwork to help with any other questions, financial information. Getting through that meeting and having concrete information about my rights, and next steps was so helpful. Good luck!
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Post by ironhamster on Aug 10, 2018 23:52:22 GMT -5
Scared. That is a valid emotion.
In my case, I had a huge collage of emotions as the split was happening. If I had to summarize it with one, happy, but, within that are bundles of anger and nervousness and frustration and sadness.
I trust that you will eventually find happiness, too, amid the chaos that this upheaval brings, and moreso when the dust settles.
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Post by bballgirl on Aug 11, 2018 17:16:59 GMT -5
Good luck! I wish you the best may everything go smoothly.
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