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Post by Deleted on May 17, 2016 18:43:34 GMT -5
OK, you guys. I will tell stories, but they may not be as good as lightblueeyes. |
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Post by Deleted on May 17, 2016 19:06:44 GMT -5
OK, you guys. I will tell stories, but they may not be as good as lightblueeyes . Did you mean bballgirl? Her stories are the BOMB. Hey, that reminds me. Let's hijack another thread to hear another date story!!! Ok, I'm waiting. |
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Post by Deleted on May 18, 2016 11:08:13 GMT -5
OK, here is my first story. I tried to create a new thread, but the site didn't cooperate. Edited transcript of a conversation between SmartKat and a guy at OK Stupid:
SmartKat: You have a great smile. Do you have any photos without the sunglasses? Tom: Well thank you for the compliment, and yes there are three without the glasses, and none without any glasses, cuz I can't see without them.  Do you have any full body shots? SK: Let me look for one. I'd prefer to share that privately, not where everybody can see it. Is there a way to attach photos to these messages? Tom: I don't think you can. If you are comfy you can email me at (email address.) SK: (emailed Tom a photo of me in a swimsuit, from the waist up) Tom: This came through, but it was not a full body shot, only from your breasts (they are very nice by the way !), up. You have a full body shot? SK: Not on my phone. I have some on my computer, but I'm out right now. I can do it when I get home. How about you? Do you have any full body shots? Tom: I think there are some online, aren't there? SK: (emailed Tom a photo of me full length, stretched out on a bed, wearing shorts and a T shirt. This photo was in my private gallery at EP.) Tom: This is a very nice photo! Thank you. But it looks like it may have been taken quite a while ago? Did you take it yourself? SK: It was last summer, and my ex took it. (about 15 minutes pass, during which I become rather annoyed with this guy) SK: And you know...if this is all about looks, feature-for-feature, I'm better looking than you are. Unless you have an insane amount of money, you aren't likely to do much better than me. |
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Post by bballgirl on May 18, 2016 11:28:17 GMT -5
Love your last response. I think a lot of people on these dating websites are very much into the looks and only interested in a hook up. It's totally a numbers game and you just have to keep playing the game. Honestly you have to not trust any of them. Even the ones that are nice can then drop you once someone better comes along as can you.
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Post by greatcoastal on May 18, 2016 11:44:21 GMT -5
Love your last response. I think a lot of people on these dating websites are very much into the looks and only interested in a hook up. It's totally a numbers game and you just have to keep playing the game. Honestly you have to not trust any of them. Even the ones that are nice can then drop you once someone better comes along as can you. So....friend, since YOU are on these dating websites, does that mean that " you have to not trust any of them" includes yourself? just sayin'. TRUST YET VARIFY. |
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Post by bballgirl on May 18, 2016 12:11:59 GMT -5
Love your last response. I think a lot of people on these dating websites are very much into the looks and only interested in a hook up. It's totally a numbers game and you just have to keep playing the game. Honestly you have to not trust any of them. Even the ones that are nice can then drop you once someone better comes along as can you. So....friend, since YOU are on these dating websites, does that mean that " you have to not trust any of them" includes yourself? just sayin'. TRUST YET VARIFY. Trust is something that is earned, at least for me. Honestly nobody should trust me either until I earn their trust. There are good people on these dating websites it's just a matter of finding the person that is looking for the same thing as you. There are people that just want a hookup, people that want to date but nothing serious, there are people looking for a long term relationship, there are married people pretending to be single (usually no profile pic). The key is communicating and asking a lot of questions. Again trust is earned!! |
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Post by greatcoastal on May 18, 2016 12:30:28 GMT -5
Trust is something that is earned, at least for me. Honestly nobody should trust me either until I earn their trust. There are good people on these dating websites it's just a matter of finding the person that is looking for the same thing as you. There are people that just want a hookup, people that want to date but nothing serious, there are people looking for a long term relationship, there are married people pretending to be single (usually no profile pic). The key is communicating and asking a lot of questions. Again trust is earned!! I knew you would come through!! " well spoken!" reminds me of a boss lady that told the staff, " you will respect me wether you like me or not!" I said loudly from the optical lab into the store, so everyone could hear me, " respect is not something you demand, respect has to be earned!". She had nothing to say. ps. With my memory, honesty is the best policy. |
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Post by Deleted on May 18, 2016 16:20:58 GMT -5
Well, I can say that when I have messaged women, they are very appreciative that I can actually carry on a conversation. Also, they are glad that I don't mention sex at all.
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Post by Isabellas39 on May 20, 2016 13:56:00 GMT -5
SK, good luck on your dating adventure. I hope you find what you're looking for without having to kiss too many frogs . I'm definitely looking forward to your stories !
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Post by wewbwb on May 20, 2016 14:16:32 GMT -5
@smartkat You took the first steps! I have a chat rule: of they can't be bothered to type in actual words, they probably can't be bothered to satisfy a woman. It's my non-scientific experience with chat sites. There are nice guys out there, you just have to weed out the riffraff. And, there's a lot of riffraff. Be patient with yourself. And be VERY selective. @smartkat When I used these sites I exhausted myself trying to be nice and answer everyone. Now I think I would be much better at screening out those that I know I wouldn't even want a friendship with because on this side of my SM I understand my own needs so much better. I liked okcupid much better than pof for that because it gives you the ability to see answers to so many types of questions, and even "customize" your own criteria with them. I wish you luck and a minimum of pervs! 
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Do you have any full body shots?
