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greatcoastal
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Excuses that keep you caged. Feb 15, 2018 8:46:16 GMT -5 tamara68, hopingforachange, and 1 more like this

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Post by greatcoastal on Feb 15, 2018 8:46:16 GMT -5

reachoutrecovery.com/topics/lies-keep-caged/

here's a short little article that can be read daily as you make decisions to help yourself.

Personally I am going to the gym this morning.
I will apply on line for two more jobs.
I will make more awkward, difficult phone calls
I will make an appointment to get my haircut
I'll read about fixing my car by myself.

All things that get me away from the toxic environment of rejection at the house. No more excuses.

Stars can't shine without darkness.

WindSister Senior Members I have thoughts, but I could be wrong ;) Posts: 1,550 Age Range: 41-45	Excuses that keep you caged. Feb 15, 2018 9:20:14 GMT -5 greatcoastal likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by WindSister on Feb 15, 2018 9:20:14 GMT -5 Eyes on that goal life, go make things happen. And control the things you can control. I bet the universe steps in and helps you along where/when you need it. Have a great day!
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Excuses that keep you caged.

Post by greatcoastal on Feb 15, 2018 8:46:16 GMT -5

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