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Post by csl on Feb 2, 2018 12:31:26 GMT -5
Recently, the matter of "pressure" has come up in a few threads, and I'm seeing another uptick in comments about it today, so here is the link to the blogpost that I did a couple of weeks ago on "Stop Pressuring Me!". Trigger warning - I write from a Christian perspective, so if that is offensive to you, spare yourself the indignation. |
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Post by greatcoastal on Feb 2, 2018 18:11:01 GMT -5
"Your making me feel guilty and I don't like it". Love it  Very much in line with a manipulative controller. |
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Post by bballgirl on Feb 3, 2018 0:00:35 GMT -5
I enjoyed reading that. Very logical.
My ex was a bad husband. Sex is part of marriage to me.
He will never be my H again. We got back together but part of the peace for me is the fact that he's not my H.
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Post by obobfla on Feb 3, 2018 0:08:47 GMT -5
Loved it! Love that it is from a Christian perspective, even though lately I run from that word. Marriage is a covenant, and part of that covenant is to have sex with the person you married.
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Post by greatcoastal on Feb 3, 2018 9:30:36 GMT -5
I find it amusing to turn the table and see just how much "pressure" a refuser puts on their spouse to change to their ways only. (back to "it takes both to change")
You can find boat loads, a wealth of truthful information in the Bible that tells you to avoid, flee, a toxic environment, and to surround your self with others that stand up for themselves. To not be so narrow minded of thinking "God hates divorce" is all there is.
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Post by GeekGoddess on Feb 3, 2018 13:41:47 GMT -5
Spot on, on tagging the guilt factor. Good article, csl. A very good read. |
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