7 ways to ready your finances for divorce.

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greatcoastal Senior Members Thanks for the Birthday wishes! Dinner with a friend tonight and B.D dance with the ladies! Posts: 6,727 Age Range: 56-60	7 ways to ready your finances for divorce. Dec 21, 2017 8:26:25 GMT -5 jim44444, hopingforachange, and 3 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by greatcoastal on Dec 21, 2017 8:26:25 GMT -5 www.usatoday.com/story/money/personalfinance/2017/05/31/7-ways-ready-your-finances-divorce/102333168/
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greatcoastal Senior Members Thanks for the Birthday wishes! Dinner with a friend tonight and B.D dance with the ladies! Posts: 6,727 Age Range: 56-60	7 ways to ready your finances for divorce. Jan 1, 2018 16:04:11 GMT -5 baza and ironhamster like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by greatcoastal on Jan 1, 2018 16:04:11 GMT -5 Here is another article about divorce and finances. divorcedmoms.com/blogs/divorce-warrior/every-woman-needs-know-financial-abuse-neglect/
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baza Senior Members Tread your own path Posts: 5,556	7 ways to ready your finances for divorce. Jan 1, 2018 22:01:52 GMT -5 greatcoastal and ironhamster like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by baza on Jan 1, 2018 22:01:52 GMT -5 Very strong article, full of relevance to ANYONE who is married or co-habitating - irrespective of the quality or otherwise of the relationship.

isolina New Member Posts: 9	7 ways to ready your finances for divorce. Jan 5, 2018 20:57:32 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by isolina on Jan 5, 2018 20:57:32 GMT -5 Thanks these are great resources

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It's important to have some money your spouse does not have access to. They might not have a right to take everything, but that doesn't mean they won't take everything and leave it to you and your lawyer to sort out later.

I am reminded of a woman in ILIASM that told of her flight back home, when her ex cut her off from all her finances and she couldn't even buy a bottle of water at the airport.

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7 ways to ready your finances for divorce.

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