jetcity
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Post by jetcity on Dec 13, 2017 15:11:57 GMT -5
Is it inevitable that a passionate person is going to marry a thinker? Would two passionate people burn out and not last? I wonder if the same would happen to two analytical thinkers. Is there something about the other that we are irresistibly attracted to? Maby we know subconsciously that we could not live with someone like ourselves. Do they need our passion to keep them from sleeping their way through life. It seems the majority of the people here are mismatched. Or is our passion lasting to long?
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Post by northstarmom on Dec 13, 2017 15:15:08 GMT -5
There are passionate thinkers....
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Dec 13, 2017 18:49:53 GMT -5
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Post by ironhamster on Dec 13, 2017 18:49:53 GMT -5
jetcity, you may find this recent thread interesting. It investigates the idea that we look for different properties in those we want to have children with than we do when looking for someone sexually attractive. iliasm.org/thread/3947/sexual-attraction
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Post by baza on Dec 13, 2017 20:39:19 GMT -5
Is it inevitable that a passionate person is going to marry a thinker? Would two passionate people burn out and not last? I wonder if the same would happen to two analytical thinkers. Is there something about the other that we are irresistibly attracted to? Maby we know subconsciously that we could not live with someone like ourselves. Do they need our passion to keep them from sleeping their way through life. It seems the majority of the people here are mismatched. Or is our passion lasting to long? (This is based on 8 years observations in this group and its' predecessor on the Experience Project site) The typical story here comes from a refused spouse and tells a tale of a mismatch, incompatability, different agendas in the marriage. No doubt there are some mismatches where one is passionate and one is an analytical thinker. Just as there are cases where one likes to fuck and the other does not. The reason "why" these mismatches occur are numerous and varied. Every story has its' own subtle variations on the theme of "why" the mismatch has occurred. Thing is, that once your deal has transitioned into ILIASM shithole territory, the "why" becomes largely irrelevant. Knowing "why" at that point is not particularly useful. We all start off even from that point, irrespective of our subtle variations on the "why". The relevant question then becomes what one is going to do about it.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 14, 2017 0:28:28 GMT -5
I am a very passionate person, and a deep thinker too....
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Post by shamwow on Dec 16, 2017 7:17:03 GMT -5
Is it inevitable that a passionate person is going to marry a thinker? Would two passionate people burn out and not last? I wonder if the same would happen to two analytical thinkers. Is there something about the other that we are irresistibly attracted to? Maby we know subconsciously that we could not live with someone like ourselves. Do they need our passion to keep them from sleeping their way through life. It seems the majority of the people here are mismatched. Or is our passion lasting to long? Being analytical is not the opposite of being passionate. I consider myself to be both. The same with my lady ballofconfusion.
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Post by h on Dec 16, 2017 8:28:13 GMT -5
Is it inevitable that a passionate person is going to marry a thinker? Would two passionate people burn out and not last? I wonder if the same would happen to two analytical thinkers. Is there something about the other that we are irresistibly attracted to? Maby we know subconsciously that we could not live with someone like ourselves. Do they need our passion to keep them from sleeping their way through life. It seems the majority of the people here are mismatched. Or is our passion lasting to long? Being analytical is not the opposite of being passionate. I consider myself to be both. The same with my lady ballofconfusion . I agree. I consider myself to be both. I consider my W neither. She is very caring but not when she lacks understanding. She is generous but not financially literate. She thinks with her feelings. She does things for others and me that she thinks we all want and need but is rarely correct in her assumptions.
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Dec 17, 2017 11:40:45 GMT -5
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Post by lwoetin on Dec 17, 2017 11:40:45 GMT -5
Is it inevitable that a passionate person is going to marry a thinker? Would two passionate people burn out and not last? I wonder if the same would happen to two analytical thinkers. Is there something about the other that we are irresistibly attracted to? Maby we know subconsciously that we could not live with someone like ourselves. Do they need our passion to keep them from sleeping their way through life. It seems the majority of the people here are mismatched. Or is our passion lasting to long? yup, I would drive myself crazy. It makes sense to marry someone different than us and give new meaning to our lives. Diversity is good. And that can lead to a new craZy to, unfortunately.
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