How to talk about sex.

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How to talk about sex. Dec 9, 2017 16:49:14 GMT -5 GeekGoddess, DryCreek, and 4 more like this

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Post by greatcoastal on Dec 9, 2017 16:49:14 GMT -5

This gets brought up often, " you should at least try to communicate with your refuser about your needs."

Personally I doubt you would get this far with a refuser, however after years of being programmed by a refuser, it's articles like this that I would want to read when the time comes for a real give and receive relationship.

www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex-partner-communication?utm_source=Facebook&utm_medium=opt&utm_campaign=TruvadaInterest#Overview1

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GeekGoddess Senior Members The secret to being happy is having a great sense of humor and a dirty mind. I'm qualified! Posts: 1,528 Age Range: 51-55	How to talk about sex. Dec 9, 2017 23:00:18 GMT -5 via Tapatalk greatcoastal and saarinista like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by GeekGoddess on Dec 9, 2017 23:00:18 GMT -5 I liked this article. Good tips for communication.

M2G Senior Members Just riding the wave Posts: 569 Age Range: 51-55	How to talk about sex. Dec 25, 2017 16:19:17 GMT -5 GeekGoddess and greatcoastal like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by M2G on Dec 25, 2017 16:19:17 GMT -5 Good article. Maybe this century it will come in handy ha ha
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mirrororchid: We've compared denier/refuser spouses to prison wardens. Dr. Psychmom has compared them to hostage takers and the unhappy spouse has Stockholm syndrome. Prisoners can't leave. Stockholm hostages don't because they want a good outcome for the captor. Sept 10, 2024 18:54:11 GMT -5

mirrororchid: Heard on a podcast: "Dating is where we present our best selves. Vulnerability is the opposite. Where we risk our partner knowing things that are imperfect. This is the way to forge the life partner bond." Sept 10, 2024 19:17:03 GMT -5

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Post by M2G on Dec 25, 2017 16:19:17 GMT -5

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