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Post by dinnaken on Oct 27, 2017 0:57:56 GMT -5
As to comments about size, elkclan2 I echo the comments of GeekGoddess and bballgirl - the guy likes you and your body That is fabulous, lucky you and lucky him. I hope that you build a happy life together. |
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Post by elkclan2 on Dec 3, 2017 4:10:13 GMT -5
Update:
I spoke to my mother on the phone last week and she wanted to buy my son a tv for Christmas. I said no. She argued with me a little about it and I revealed that part of the reason I don't want another tv in the house (we have 3 already) is that I don't know what the situation will be in the next year... (My boyfriend and I are talking seriously about moving in together some time in 2018 and then we'd have two big and two small tvs together). So she jumped on that and said "Are you thinking of moving in with M?" and I said yes. She said "I think that would be a great idea, but is everything ok. I mean he seems so nice, I worry he might be a secret serial killer or something... Every time the phone rings I worry it's you calling to tell me you've found out something terrible about him" WTF???
On the plus side - I did 'meet the family' on his side this week. His father is dead, but I met his widow (M's stepmother) and his brother and stepbrother. Woahhh! Are they perfect? No. But I had a great time and they were welcoming and lovely. And they all said how disappointed they were that my son wasn't there (it was a dad weekend for him). I also met my stepkids' mother this weekend, which went ok. She seemed a little intimated by me, which isn't what I wanted. I was a bit worried about leaving my stepkids as they usually give me a big hug on the way out, sometimes initiated by me. So I was a bit worried about it and didn't ask for a hug as I was leaving. But my older one, gave me a big long lingering hug... Mentioned it to M and he said he hoped his ex didn't take that out on him. :-(
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Post by WindSister on Dec 5, 2017 9:21:24 GMT -5
Update: I spoke to my mother on the phone last week and she wanted to buy my son a tv for Christmas. I said no. She argued with me a little about it and I revealed that part of the reason I don't want another tv in the house (we have 3 already) is that I don't know what the situation will be in the next year... (My boyfriend and I are talking seriously about moving in together some time in 2018 and then we'd have two big and two small tvs together). So she jumped on that and said "Are you thinking of moving in with M?" and I said yes. She said "I think that would be a great idea, but is everything ok. I mean he seems so nice, I worry he might be a secret serial killer or something... Every time the phone rings I worry it's you calling to tell me you've found out something terrible about him" WTF??? On the plus side - I did 'meet the family' on his side this week. His father is dead, but I met his widow (M's stepmother) and his brother and stepbrother. Woahhh! Are they perfect? No. But I had a great time and they were welcoming and lovely. And they all said how disappointed they were that my son wasn't there (it was a dad weekend for him). I also met my stepkids' mother this weekend, which went ok. She seemed a little intimated by me, which isn't what I wanted. I was a bit worried about leaving my stepkids as they usually give me a big hug on the way out, sometimes initiated by me. So I was a bit worried about it and didn't ask for a hug as I was leaving. But my older one, gave me a big long lingering hug... Mentioned it to M and he said he hoped his ex didn't take that out on him. :-( The kids are M's? So you met his ex, or am I missing a key component?  At any rate, welcome to the world of Ex's and O's! (as I call it, it makes me happy to call it that.. lol). Exes and step kids and inlaws and ex-inlaws, OH my!) You'll do great, just keep being you, you are awesome. |
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Post by elkclan2 on Dec 7, 2017 5:44:35 GMT -5
@awake - I have one and he has two and they are all about the same age and all boys!!! And they get along TOO well - they plot against the grown-ups! :-)
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