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ironhamster Senior Members 25 year SM veteran. Happily Divorced. Posts: 2,636	General question Sept 22, 2017 16:46:39 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ironhamster on Sept 22, 2017 16:46:39 GMT -5 ^^^^^ ROFL!!!!

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General question Sept 23, 2017 8:21:29 GMT -5 via mobile h and ironhamster like this

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Sept 20, 2017 18:06:14 GMT -5 itme said:

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Similarly, after a buddy at work pointed it out, I can not see the word advertisements without seeing semen between tits.

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General question Sept 23, 2017 8:40:46 GMT -5 via mobile DryCreek, hopingforachange, and 4 more like this

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One more angle. In my wife's case, it seems to be occasion driven. It seems to have settled to Valentine's and anniversary. Not because she suddenly had a strong drive on those days. Rather, just as everyone knows you cook turkey for Thanksgiving and have a tree for Christmas, sex is what you do on those days. I now dread those days coming around because it is soul crushing and to be honest I've lost sexual interest in her from having been rejected at multiple levels in the relationship.
All this to say, a small handful of roots per year can be very much sexless. I'm just coming to grips with the fact that she doesn't have any interest in sex with me ever, instead she is just checking all the boxes on various occasions. Interestingly she didn't think of anything on my birthday. I don't think I have to tell anyone here the one thing a man wants on his birthday. Seriously, no card, no gifts, no dinner would be just fine.

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