Post by nancyb on Sept 15, 2017 7:54:22 GMT -5
Life is good. New house is great. I have a couple of regular lovers and that suits me just fine. I am not wanting any sort of serious relationship at this time. I have learned that there are men out there who don't mind if you are a few pounds overweight of even an old lady like me. 
Confidence is sexy as hell and when you are firing on all cylinders you attract men.
I am developing a larger circle of friends around me and exploring my new city. Sure in my heart of hearts I would like a serious relationship but if this does't happen for me and what I have right now is the rest of my life then that's okay too. I am traveling and have a supportive family although we are geographically distant.
I see my ex spouse quite regularly. We are the same good friends we were always meant to be. I have forgiven him his affair ( fell apart after a few months) and am even thankful to him for breaking the deadlock that our marriage had become and asked for a divorce. I didn't have the courage at that time to do it myself.
I came out the other side with myself intact. A little battered but a wiser me. Life isn't perfect but it feels good to be living my life authentically. I will never be in sexless relationship again. Its just too important to me.
Thanks for listening. Be well.
Confidence is sexy as hell and when you are firing on all cylinders you attract men. I am developing a larger circle of friends around me and exploring my new city. Sure in my heart of hearts I would like a serious relationship but if this does't happen for me and what I have right now is the rest of my life then that's okay too. I am traveling and have a supportive family although we are geographically distant.
I see my ex spouse quite regularly. We are the same good friends we were always meant to be. I have forgiven him his affair ( fell apart after a few months) and am even thankful to him for breaking the deadlock that our marriage had become and asked for a divorce. I didn't have the courage at that time to do it myself.
I came out the other side with myself intact. A little battered but a wiser me. Life isn't perfect but it feels good to be living my life authentically. I will never be in sexless relationship again. Its just too important to me.
Thanks for listening. Be well.
