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Post by cagedadventurer on Aug 29, 2017 8:32:42 GMT -5
My W does not need to work but will take opportunities offered to her. The principal at the Kids' new school asked her to hire on and assist and she said "yes" of course. The pay is not worth mentioning and she will give 10 hours a day to this from preparing in the AM to home at 4:00. She won't even tell them that she wants 4 days, etc. even though this is an easy option. The alternative however is that she might be home alone with just me when I work from the house some days. Though she is behaving sweet and patient these days and will have sex when prodded she is avoiding once again. This IS the future of an empty nest. Lonely. BTW - I am flying to Vail, CO tomorrow BY MYSELF! She shows zero interest in going anywhere and never just the two of us. I am going to all the paces I'd like to see now. No more waiting for her for anything. Sure wish I had a travel partner though to share in the experiences.
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Post by allworkandnoplay on Aug 29, 2017 20:26:36 GMT -5
For my situation, open relationship is not an option. I will just bide my time. Hell, I've waited this long.
I am still a bit paranoid, so I am not putting out as much personal information as I probably could. Suffice it to say, my profession is very public and makes anything of that nature all but impossible. We have also had a shitstorm of bad luck over the last 18 months or so (medical bills and child illness, home repairs, car accident and repairs, and more). There is no way that either of us could maintain separate households at this time. So I am literally stuck in place, at least for a while longer. I just needed to vent.
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Post by h on Aug 30, 2017 4:36:43 GMT -5
For my situation, open relationship is not an option. I will just bide my time. Hell, I've waited this long. I am still a bit paranoid, so I am not putting out as much personal information as I probably could. Suffice it to say, my profession is very public and makes anything of that nature all but impossible. We have also had a shitstorm of bad luck over the last 18 months or so (medical bills and child illness, home repairs, car accident and repairs, and more). There is no way that either of us could maintain separate households at this time. So I am literally stuck in place, at least for a while longer. I just needed to vent. I'm kind of in the same boat. We have more debts than assets and are nearly underwater on the house mortgage. No savings and in need of a new car. Waiting is best for now but not forever.
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