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Post by TMD on Aug 26, 2017 11:38:43 GMT -5
TMD Good Lord... I hope she's okay. It is indeed very scary. Oh yes, I wasn't born yesterday, I know very well what Tinder is for. Me too. I know she's planning a trip home with kids. Am hoping she doesn't return to Japan. She's smart, she's an incredible mom.. I'm certain she already knows what she's up against. She seems overwhelmed and frustrated, perhaps even a bit scared. Her Japanese in-laws are not nice people either. So I don't expect she has much support there. |
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Post by northstarmom on Aug 26, 2017 12:08:19 GMT -5
Can he get your child back if you move with your child to your home country, ask a good lawyer with international law experience to find that out. Your parents may be able to consult with a lawyer for you.
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Post by idna on Aug 26, 2017 12:17:03 GMT -5
hopingforachangeI don't know if we could do something like that legally. I'm still in the middle of looking for sources to get more information. My H doesn't allow me to go home with our son, because he's worried about us if the child can not take the 15+ hours trip on the plane. I truly believe he suspects nothing about my research, so it's not out of fear for me not coming back to him.
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Post by northstarmom on Aug 26, 2017 12:23:32 GMT -5
Talk to a lawyer in your own country. Taking your child thereabd staying may not be legal in Japan, but since you will be in your home country, your husband may have no legal recourse.
Is in Japan, would you need your husband's written permission to leave the country with your child? If not, you could sneak away.
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Post by idna on Aug 26, 2017 12:34:23 GMT -5
northstarmom I'll definitely try to find a lawyer. I don't need permission from my husband. That's all for now because I'm completely exhausted and I need some sleep. Thank you everyone for your advices, I really appreciate it! It gives me so much confidence.
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