I'd bet good money that the general run of stories on the "talkaboutmarriage" site would not differ greatly to this "ILIASM" site.
That is to say, sure, you'd find some rare recovery stories in "talkaboutmarriage" (just as you'll find some rare recovery stories in "ILIASM)
I'd suggest that if you are in a dysfunctional marriage, your story isn't going to be any better (or worse) if you post it on "talkingaboutmarriage" or you post it on "ILIASM" or some other site dealing in dysfunctional marriages.
It's a bit like reading the articles in "The New York Times" about the coronavirus, or reading the coronavirus articles in "The Guardian". Essentially they're the same articles drawn from the same facts.
A W that loves her H but doesn't like sex and some advice she got on TAM. I posted this to give readers the story from the W's POV. I am not saying it doesn't hurt the H. I also want to point out from her POV she isn't deliberately"trying" to be mean. It just goes that way.
This the "Shoutbox" -- basically a site-wide, group chat. (It's only visible to members.)
worksforme2: I'm reading about flash flooding in south east Australia. I think that might be near you Baz. Are you located on high ground?
Oct 14, 2022 10:16:46 GMT -5
greatcoastal: Thanks for the B.D. wishes! Dinner with a friend tonight and B.D. dance with the Ladies tomorrow!
Oct 14, 2022 16:38:40 GMT -5
petrushka: Hope you haven't had to resort to snorkles yet, Baza. I just saw a figure of 12m for some place. Yeesh. And according to the flood warning map you're in the red zone...
Oct 15, 2022 6:09:38 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Birthday misssunnybunny.....
Oct 23, 2022 5:06:17 GMT -5
wewbwb: The best of birthday wishes to misssunnybunny , a special woman who deserves the best!
Oct 23, 2022 9:56:58 GMT -5
petrushka: Ditto, many happy returns!
Oct 24, 2022 1:27:01 GMT -5
jim44444: Was that a shootout from the long absent wewbwb?
Oct 24, 2022 17:38:53 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: Thank you for the birthday wishes! It was a very happy birthday!
Oct 25, 2022 10:05:56 GMT -5
wewbwb: Yes jim44444 I only appear on misssunnybunny birthday. But that doesn't mean I don't watch what you hooligans are up to.
Oct 25, 2022 19:03:38 GMT -5
mirrororchid: What if we say your name three times?
Oct 26, 2022 19:15:10 GMT -5