I'd bet good money that the general run of stories on the "talkaboutmarriage" site would not differ greatly to this "ILIASM" site.
That is to say, sure, you'd find some rare recovery stories in "talkaboutmarriage" (just as you'll find some rare recovery stories in "ILIASM)
I'd suggest that if you are in a dysfunctional marriage, your story isn't going to be any better (or worse) if you post it on "talkingaboutmarriage" or you post it on "ILIASM" or some other site dealing in dysfunctional marriages.
It's a bit like reading the articles in "The New York Times" about the coronavirus, or reading the coronavirus articles in "The Guardian". Essentially they're the same articles drawn from the same facts.
A W that loves her H but doesn't like sex and some advice she got on TAM. I posted this to give readers the story from the W's POV. I am not saying it doesn't hurt the H. I also want to point out from her POV she isn't deliberately"trying" to be mean. It just goes that way.
This the "Shoutbox" -- basically a site-wide, group chat. (It's only visible to members.)
petrushka: Just attended a lecture on local history. Apparently the Presbyterian Scottish refugees who settled here called a 'frolic', what the Amish would call a 'barn raising'. First a working bee, then dancing and feasting.
Mar 25, 2021 22:43:53 GMT -5
jerri: Pressing the like sign for all those comments.
Mar 26, 2021 15:04:52 GMT -5
worksforme2: Lucked onto a great new source for breaking news----The Babylon Bee
Mar 28, 2021 12:47:45 GMT -5
catlover: The resentment is running high today
Mar 28, 2021 18:39:08 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Sorry, dude. I think resentment has been the fuel for action in some SMs. It can be part of a process, eventually helpful.
Mar 30, 2021 4:43:40 GMT -5
Handy: I just read "The Babylon Bee" article "Blockage Cleared, Ships Moving At Record Speed As Chick-Fil-A Workers Put In Charge Of Suez Canal." Good humor.
Mar 30, 2021 16:49:51 GMT -5
worksforme2: Freezing temps in the morning for the next 3 days= no peaches in the fall for me unless I buy them,... 2 yrs in a row...growing my own fruit has proven to be a losing proposition
Apr 1, 2021 16:32:30 GMT -5
Handy: Meet the Feebles=weird!
Apr 1, 2021 18:22:06 GMT -5
jerri: Lots of interesting comments. I am way behind. Sending hugs and a kiss on the cheek💋
Apr 8, 2021 0:11:19 GMT -5
roy: Hi All, I just joined, at 77. I've been in a sexless marriage for too many years ...
Apr 9, 2021 15:26:32 GMT -5
petrushka: G'day Roy, welcome to the place most of us don't want to be. I am sure you will find lots of interesting personal stories and comments and reactions on the forum. Don't be shy about jumping in to talks ...
Apr 9, 2021 15:47:25 GMT -5