Post by neonspace on Aug 21, 2017 14:35:23 GMT -5
I'm curious how people compartmentalize the rejection from their spouse and any associated resentment from any other relationship?
I know that I have become overly sensitive to rejection and sometimes very basic rejections that happen to all of us every day I find challenging and frustrating when I probably shouldn't. I try to be mindful and remind myself that these interactions and relationships aren't my marriage and shouldn't bother me, but it still happens sometimes.
I could also see it making a relationship with an AP or future romantic relationships difficult if this isn't something that is addressed.
How do you compartmentalize and separate out the SM rejection from normal everyday rejection or rejection in a healthy relationship?
I know that I have become overly sensitive to rejection and sometimes very basic rejections that happen to all of us every day I find challenging and frustrating when I probably shouldn't. I try to be mindful and remind myself that these interactions and relationships aren't my marriage and shouldn't bother me, but it still happens sometimes.
I could also see it making a relationship with an AP or future romantic relationships difficult if this isn't something that is addressed.
How do you compartmentalize and separate out the SM rejection from normal everyday rejection or rejection in a healthy relationship?
