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Post by McRoomMate on Aug 13, 2017 21:30:48 GMT -5
So I find myself a few thousand miles from a new let us say more than "fling" - she starts to get increasingly horny at a distance and well cute little selfies start escalating and then what do you know - oh my I remembered the words "sexting".
Any experience? Any regrets?
I told her to delete the photos and gasp . . . videos (only shorts) but I sort of feel like the night after a black out drunk or something. What was I thinking.
I suppose we both have "mutual black mail" on each other if any thing leaked but still. Oh with iPhones and a few thousand miles - How crazy can it get???
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Post by GeekGoddess on Aug 13, 2017 23:06:48 GMT -5
Dude. Slow your roll. You know you act erratically. Slow the hell down. At least the pace. If you make rash decisions at half the speed, at least you would limit the quantity of regrets?
Oh my. You could totally get yourself into hot water with this man.
Slow down. Pause. Sleep on it. Then fuck up. It would be a fraction of the risk to act rashly only a fraction of the time.
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Post by baza on Aug 13, 2017 23:39:25 GMT -5
Choices made on an impulsive, short term gratification, rushed, uninformed basis have a tendency to result in sub-optimal consequences.
Could a case be made to hit the 'pause' button, and take a full and frank inventory of where you are now, what past choices you have made that have resulted in where you are now, and what choices you might make now to get you to where you want to be in a month / 6 month, 12 months and beyond ?
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Post by lifeinwoodinville on Aug 14, 2017 0:35:10 GMT -5
I did the long distance online affair for two and a half years. I in Seattle, she in Auckland. We both sent each other lots of photos. If either of us were inclined to want to screw the other one's life up it would be easy to do. But I guess that's the chance you take, I don't regret any of that.
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Post by DryCreek on Aug 14, 2017 1:30:05 GMT -5
"Words, once spoken, have a life of their own."
That goes double for anything you put in writing, and quadruple for audio/video recordings.
As the current generation grows into politics and executive roles, it'll be interesting to see which way the social wind blows - either the exposés will be so commonplace as to be meaningless (except, probably, to one's spouse), or many more careers will be cut short. I'm betting for the former.
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Post by lyn on Aug 14, 2017 3:41:59 GMT -5
DryCreek - yes! I think we'll be in for some surprises with future candidates. Or who knows - maybe society is becoming just that numb - it'll be just part of the rhetoric seemingly readily accepted by so many of the current populace - ugh .. sad McRoomMate - it's easy to get caught up in the moment. One of the many "gifts" many of us take with us as we leave our sm's is a lack of personal boundaries. For so many years we tried so hard to get our own special a-holes interested in sex with us - well - any personal boundaries that may have been in place are long gone. Along with our esteem and self-respect. We need to figure out what they are once again. Trust me doll - I so get this. Boundaries are important - they help us remember who we are - who we aspire to be. Remind us of our awesomeness. Maybe think on what your boundaries are. You have a lot to offer the right woman. You're obviously smart, creative, on your path to enlightenment. Please don't devalue or devolve self by the quick trigger finger aka dick-pic-of-the-day. You know what I mean - just be judicious - be careful. (Maybe keep one or two of hers in case you need the ammo - ugh) Not judging - probably (admittedly) projecting.
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Post by WindSister on Aug 14, 2017 10:56:46 GMT -5
DryCreek - yes! I think we'll be in for some surprises with future candidates. Or who knows - maybe society is becoming just that numb - it'll be just part of the rhetoric seemingly readily accepted by so many of the current populace - ugh .. sad McRoomMate - it's easy to get caught up in the moment. One of the many "gifts" many of us take with us as we leave our sm's is a lack of personal boundaries. For so many years we tried so hard to get our own special a-holes interested in sex with us - well - any personal boundaries that may have been in place are long gone. Along with our esteem and self-respect. We need to figure out what they are once again. Trust me doll - I so get this. Boundaries are important - they help us remember who we are - who we aspire to be. Remind us of our awesomeness. Maybe think on what your boundaries are. You have a lot to offer the right woman. You're obviously smart, creative, on your path to enlightenment. Please don't devalue or devolve self by the quick trigger finger aka dick-pic-of-the-day. You know what I mean - just be judicious - be careful. (Maybe keep one or two of hers in case you need the ammo - ugh) Not judging - probably (admittedly) projecting. ^^^^^ YES to all of that ^^^^^^ And I agree because, been there done that. |
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Post by lwoetin on Aug 14, 2017 12:21:43 GMT -5
Hahaha. I'm sure you had a great time. If you want to make a second copy of the videos Nelly provided, I can hold on to it for you for safekeeping.
I would be too shy to send sexy videos to strangers. I need to know a little about them first.
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Post by Caris on Aug 14, 2017 13:45:00 GMT -5
I don't sext with anyone. I'd have to be in love, and trust the man, as in be in an established relationship to do that, and in this age of "big brother" I probably wouldn't, even then.
Be careful what you send, especially those you don't know very well. They could go viral.
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