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Post by darktippedrose on Aug 18, 2017 15:59:54 GMT -5
yeah, totally not bubbling up with joy. hehe. I may be a bit uplifted on Monday when the kids go back to school. yay. Nice to know my reaction is quite normal.
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endthegame
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Post by endthegame on Aug 19, 2017 6:31:32 GMT -5
Yes. I found the why in the form of a mental illness / personality disorder. As Baz has said many times, this changed nothing. It did offer me a very good opportunity (over time) to look inwards and understand why I was willing to take X amountof shit from a personality disordered individual. In turn this offored me the opportunity to sort my own shit out and becoma a better person for it. As far as the SM went, it changed nothing. Only my actions changed this
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Post by darktippedrose on Aug 19, 2017 15:55:32 GMT -5
thank you for sharing this! I deeply appreciate it. I have often wondered, for myself, if my co-dependent relationship with my mother (drug addiction) didn't set me up as easy prey. Especially since I didn't really get to to do much soul work on myself before I got married.
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