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I don't agree with this....

It's not that rare at all.  

But I do agree with the premise of doing it just to do it even if you aren't "in the mood."  In a healthy, functional relationship I think that IS something that happens sometimes.  I can think of one time recently he was in the mood and I wasn't, but did it anyway.  It was 3 am and while I usually LOVE getting woken up for sex, this time I actually didn't feel all that hot so I wasn't as pleasantly surprised as usual, but I didn't let him know that and it ended up being perfect anyway and I was definitely glad I went along with it.  I could never reject him sexually just because I know how it feels.  I am sure there have been times he hasn't been in the mood and did it anyway - with enthusiasm.  He never makes me feel bad for initiating and that's a very welcome and wonderful feeling.

Rejecting a partner who wants you?  I just don't get it - how a person could do that.  I lived it, lived through it and I still don't get it, especially how I allowed myself to endure it.  It doesn't have to be that way.