Post by WindSister on Aug 11, 2017 10:50:57 GMT -5
You know your H's ex behavior on Fakebook can be a good thing. It re-enforces the fact that he made the right decision to get away from her. Now he has someone far more valuable and worthy---YOU!!!
It does come back to boundaries again. That "Grandpa Papa" deal has GUS all over it!
Personally I would have wanted to turn around and dubb her BITCH. I mean, that is what you call a female fox! What's wrong with that? If she want's to decide what every one is to be "dubbed" then dubb her. Then let your H tell her, "I learned from the best. Just following what you taught me". Then praise GOD that he really isn't anything like that. Now.... I wouldn't get into such a spiteful habit, but it sure is good once in a while to put them in their place. She is just using her offspring to get her own needs met.
I mean ,I am going to find myself literally telling my ex, "shut up, stop, end of conversation, we are done here. That's not what I said and IT WILL BE THIS WAY" There's just no compromising with a controller, a GU.
She falls right into that category of a one way street paved with double standards. Fortunately the conversations, and cards are becoming less and less. As it should be.
I'm feeling weird today with some things that popped up to challenge me. I spouted out some insecurities to my husband in texts. I hate when I do that, but I couldn't stop myself.
I waited for him to lecture me, tell me to stop it, get over ir, grow up.
Instead, he responded with "I love you, sexy."
Might not seem like much but those words give me strength and I know everything is fine. He doesn't try to fix my thoughts, he just loves me always.
I think he also trusts me to work through what ever issues I'm currently having as I always do. I. Thankful I can share them with him though.
Eh. So I'll stop writing for the day, take some mental health pto, go home, change and mow the lawn. Sun and exercise are needed.
For those reading this, once you get out there's a whole slew of NEW things you get to deal with in life. But, I still take this life over my previous one. Exes just make life super fun, she says sarcastically.
Have a good weekend everyone.