Post by Venus Erotes on Jul 16, 2017 10:26:21 GMT -5
HI!
I created this webinar to give those unsure of how to bring up the topic to their refusers. Some of you may find it helpful, others may not. Either way, I'd love your opinions, questions, etc. It's not polished by any means.
This the "Shoutbox" -- basically a site-wide, group chat. (It's only visible to members.)
mirrororchid: Spammers got cleaned out. Shout out to ModHatter, I think.
Sept 4, 2024 4:08:04 GMT -5
mirrororchid: We've compared denier/refuser spouses to prison wardens. Dr. Psychmom has compared them to hostage takers and the unhappy spouse has Stockholm syndrome. Prisoners can't leave. Stockholm hostages don't because they want a good outcome for the captor.
Sept 10, 2024 18:54:11 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Heard on a podcast: "Dating is where we present our best selves. Vulnerability is the opposite. Where we risk our partner knowing things that are imperfect. This is the way to forge the life partner bond."
Sept 10, 2024 19:17:03 GMT -5
jerri: Gems!Hiya precious people
Sept 12, 2024 0:05:11 GMT -5
week5of35years: My Wife had 30 free mins before she had to start work this AM... I said.. "lets have a quick shag" and she said she was going to walk the dog instead.... Still work to do....
Sept 17, 2024 3:51:34 GMT -5
isthisit: Week 5; For once I am in your wife’s corner on this one, I’d have walked the dog too! You need to work in your delivery there…
Sept 20, 2024 0:01:57 GMT -5
week5of35years: LOL, in my defence, I squeezed her boobs as we were waking up and she was pretty responsive ...... If that had just come out of the blue I would have smacked myself in the face .... ha ha ha
Sept 23, 2024 5:54:56 GMT -5
mirrororchid: "Teamwork makes the dream work." - "Ever heard of the Pareto principle?"
Sept 29, 2024 14:50:23 GMT -5
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worksforme2: Happy Birthday shamwow....
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worksforme2: Happy Birthday greatcoastal,...interesting detail above, 6714 posts in one day...
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greatcoastal: Thanks for the Happy B.D. wishes worksforme2!
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worksforme2: Happy Birthday misssunnybunny....
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