Goin' to the courthouse...and...gonna get un-married

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Goin' to the courthouse...and...gonna get un-married Jul 14, 2017 12:02:35 GMT -5 via mobile goyaman and ironhamster like this

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Post by TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo on Jul 14, 2017 12:02:35 GMT -5

Some wisdom from a couple of divorced friends...

Ya know why divorce is so expensive?
Cause its worth it!

Jul 14, 2017 7:25:33 GMT -5 shamwow said:

Jul 12, 2017 20:35:46 GMT -5 baza said:

Big milepost you have just gone by.
Now, on with the rest of it, a wealth of hard won knowledge in your pocket.

Expensive tuition...

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Goin' to the courthouse...and...gonna get un-married Jul 14, 2017 21:44:01 GMT -5

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Post by ggold on Jul 14, 2017 21:44:01 GMT -5

Jul 12, 2017 12:01:27 GMT -5 shamwow said:

20 years ago today, I got married.
This morning, I went before the judge and am now officially un-married.

It's done. I'm officially a divorcee now.

Had that song "going to the chapel and gonna get married" caught in my head. Seems that the same is true on "going to the courthouse and gonna get un-married".

There was no white horse-drawn carriage (like at the wedding) that brought me to the courthouse, though. Just a cold-ass marble bench to sit on.

Congrats shamwow. You knew it was time to move forward and you did it. Wishing you all the happiness you deserve as you move on to a new chapter in your life.

goyaman New Member Posts: 5	Goin' to the courthouse...and...gonna get un-married Jul 14, 2017 23:00:24 GMT -5 via mobile ggold likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by goyaman on Jul 14, 2017 23:00:24 GMT -5 Congratulations! You and so many on this forum inspire me! Best of luck as you begin this new chapter in your life.

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Goin' to the courthouse...and...gonna get un-married

Post by TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo on Jul 14, 2017 12:02:35 GMT -5

Post by ggold on Jul 14, 2017 21:44:01 GMT -5

Post by goyaman on Jul 14, 2017 23:00:24 GMT -5

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