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Post by WindSister on Jul 12, 2017 14:38:17 GMT -5
I'm not sure I will want to unfriend my ex. Almost all of her posts involve the kids. She's one of those people who have the picture of the kids as her profile pic rather than of herself. Since they are with her more, I'd like to see her posts. If she unfriends me? So be it. Shortly after I separated, I had to unfriend her after she called me up and went totally psycho on me for about 10 minutes, over a picture I posted to my timeline. I actually had to hang up on her in mid-sentence. Something I don't think I ever did before or since. You might think it was a pic of my new gf or at least a female that she could let her imagination run wild on. Nope. It was a pic of the full moon. No lie. I know my STBX is "very different" in those ways, but I thought it was worth a "depends on" comment. Of course if you rarely post to your timeline then it may be rather moot. Almost forgot... that was shortly after a friend did a group selfie in a bar, mixed gender, posted it to his timeline and then tagged me. She didn't like that either but it was the other pic, I think, that really set her off. She was upset that I stealth unfriended her but I never bothered to comment on that. Alright, gotta ask -- what was the meaning behind the moon? Just curious, you don't have to answer. The reason I unfriended my ex didn't even have to do with anything he or I posted about. It just felt freeing to me. Course, we don't have kids together, so it's a no-brainer. I kept ONE of his friends because I worked out with her a lot the last two years of our marriage and she was actually more friends with me than him but that is the only shared connection we have on Facebook. |
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Post by beachguy on Jul 12, 2017 14:39:43 GMT -5
Shortly after I separated, I had to unfriend her after she called me up and went totally psycho on me for about 10 minutes, over a picture I posted to my timeline. I actually had to hang up on her in mid-sentence. Something I don't think I ever did before or since. You might think it was a pic of my new gf or at least a female that she could let her imagination run wild on. Nope. It was a pic of the full moon. No lie. I know my STBX is "very different" in those ways, but I thought it was worth a "depends on" comment. Of course if you rarely post to your timeline then it may be rather moot. Almost forgot... that was shortly after a friend did a group selfie in a bar, mixed gender, posted it to his timeline and then tagged me. She didn't like that either but it was the other pic, I think, that really set her off. She was upset that I stealth unfriended her but I never bothered to comment on that. So dumb question... I can unfriendly someone without them knowing? Yea, there is a setting where you "freeze" your current timeline for a specific person. They see everything prior to the freeze, but nothing later. Nothing new. My friend that posted that selfie told me about it when I mentioned the grief it caused me. Not sure what it does with your photo albums, for example. And it's hard to test since you would have to unfriend someone that way and have access to their log in somehow. If you were using FB regularly, and because of the kids, doing that would interfere with things as you mentioned. But it's a Plan B if she gives you problems. |
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Post by beachguy on Jul 12, 2017 14:41:50 GMT -5
Shortly after I separated, I had to unfriend her after she called me up and went totally psycho on me for about 10 minutes, over a picture I posted to my timeline. I actually had to hang up on her in mid-sentence. Something I don't think I ever did before or since. You might think it was a pic of my new gf or at least a female that she could let her imagination run wild on. Nope. It was a pic of the full moon. No lie. I know my STBX is "very different" in those ways, but I thought it was worth a "depends on" comment. Of course if you rarely post to your timeline then it may be rather moot. Almost forgot... that was shortly after a friend did a group selfie in a bar, mixed gender, posted it to his timeline and then tagged me. She didn't like that either but it was the other pic, I think, that really set her off. She was upset that I stealth unfriended her but I never bothered to comment on that. Alright, gotta ask -- what was the meaning behind the moon? Just curious, you don't have to answer. The reason I unfriended my ex didn't even have to do with anything he or I posted about. It just felt freeing to me. Course, we don't have kids together, so it's a no-brainer. I kept ONE of his friends because I worked out with her a lot the last two years of our marriage and she was actually more friends with me than him but that is the only shared connection we have on Facebook. It was just a high rez of the full moon that evening. No innuendo or anything else. |
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Post by shamwow on Jul 12, 2017 14:55:07 GMT -5
I'm not sure I will want to unfriend my ex. Almost all of her posts involve the kids. She's one of those people who have the picture of the kids as her profile pic rather than of herself. Since they are with her more, I'd like to see her posts. If she unfriends me? So be it. Shortly after I separated, I had to unfriend her after she called me up and went totally psycho on me for about 10 minutes, over a picture I posted to my timeline. I actually had to hang up on her in mid-sentence. Something I don't think I ever did before or since. You might think it was a pic of my new gf or at least a female that she could let her imagination run wild on. Nope. It was a pic of the full moon. No lie. I know my STBX is "very different" in those ways, but I thought it was worth a "depends on" comment. Of course if you rarely post to your timeline then it may be rather moot. Almost forgot... that was shortly after a friend did a group selfie in a bar, mixed gender, posted it to his timeline and then tagged me. She didn't like that either but it was the other pic, I think, that really set her off. She was upset that I stealth unfriended her but I never bothered to comment on that. Well I can totally understand it then.... If you're giving the camera "the full moon" that display of skin is not only insensitive, but probably also against Facebook's terms of service. |
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