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northstarmom Senior Members Posts: 4,357	SM Statistics Jul 9, 2017 14:34:51 GMT -5 via mobile beachguy likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by northstarmom on Jul 9, 2017 14:34:51 GMT -5 Keep in mind that some sexless marriages are that way by both partner's choice.,..

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Jul 9, 2017 14:28:39 GMT -5 h said:

Jul 9, 2017 5:44:02 GMT -5 beachguy said:

There are millions of sexless marriages. This forum has less than 1000 members. We are a microscopic proportion of what's out there.

My point is that if the world were perfect and all the LL people were matched up together, there would be fewer HL people stuck in SM's

I have a theory about why so many mismatches occur. Maybe next time I'm on real a keyboard I'll tap it out

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Jul 9, 2017 14:34:51 GMT -5 northstarmom said:

Keep in mind that some sexless marriages are that way by both partner's choice.,..

Asexuals are 1%ers. The few that manage to find each other are even rarer. Among the over 50 crowd, issues like ED and menopause occur but how often do both spouses lose interest at the same time?

Yes, These couples exist but they are either quite rare or the asexual community is way off on their estimates

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Jul 9, 2017 5:36:22 GMT -5 h said:

Jul 9, 2017 2:22:35 GMT -5 neonspace said:

I wonder how many couples got together with equally low to zero sex drive for whatever reason and are just humming along in wedded bliss?

If that were likely, this forum would have far fewer members.

That's why I wish dating and matchmaking sites asked more questions about what kind of sex life each person wants.

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Post by TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo on Jul 11, 2017 14:32:19 GMT -5

I could have fun with this. Some good questions for dating apps

Scale of 1-10 what is your libido rank at the moment. 1(low libido, no sex ever, asexual) - 10 (high libido, sex multiple times a day, gravity defying sexual beast)
Scale of 1-10 what rank would you prefer your sexual partner's libido to be
In the last 5 years has your libido increased, decreased or stayed the same

And the bonus, perhaps kink/freak level too
Scale of 1-10, what is your kink level 1(missionary only please, lights off and only on monday nights) - 10 (I have more toys than my kids, now drip hot wax on my nipples)

Jul 11, 2017 10:59:43 GMT -5 @smartkat said:

Jul 9, 2017 5:36:22 GMT -5 h said:

If that were likely, this forum would have far fewer members.

That's why I wish dating and matchmaking sites asked more questions about what kind of sex life each person wants.

Last Edit: Jul 11, 2017 14:33:27 GMT -5 by TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo

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Jul 11, 2017 10:59:43 GMT -5 @smartkat said:

Jul 9, 2017 5:36:22 GMT -5 h said:

If that were likely, this forum would have far fewer members.

That's why I wish dating and matchmaking sites asked more questions about what kind of sex life each person wants.

Hmmm...In all honestly, it seems as though this is an under served niche. Another idea for a web application rattling round in my head.

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