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Post by northstarmom on Jul 4, 2017 22:21:21 GMT -5
Just in case you're tempted to think that if you make it to sixty, your SM won't manage to you, here's a Detroit Free Press article that offers a different perspective. "People look at disability and age as a problem, " sexuality educator Melanie Davis said. "We don’t have to frame it as this horrible thing." Davis, SaferSex4Seniors developer, said it's a myth that men and women lose sexual interest with age. In fact, "they will likely have satisfying sex later in life," she said.... Myth: They only have one partner Christine Heumann, physician at Detroit Medical Center's Receiving Hospital and medical director at the Detroit Public Health STD Clinic, said people are living longer and having more sexual partners.“65 is the new 45," echoed Dr. Patrice Harold, Director of Minimally Invasive Gynecology at Detroit Medical Center's Hutzel Women's Hospital.... Myth: Sex isn't happening in nursing homes In 2015, a then 85-year-old woman known as "The Condom Lady" spent time touring senior living homes in Florida, educating residents about safe sex."And I ask the seniors: How old do you think you are when you stop thinking about sex? And they all say, when you're dead,” Kate GeMeiner told Health News Florida.... Myth: Sex isn't good for seniors Harold said sex can be a great health booster."There’s nothing wrong with having sex after 60 and there are benefits for vaginal health," Harold said. She said the more seniors have sex, the longer they can usually maintain it as part of their lifestyle — "use it, or lose it." Improved sleep, younger appearance, less migraines and relationships satisfaction, are among reasons AARP lists to "have more sex after 50."Some reports also show sex can lower odds of developing prostate cancer for men." www.freep.com/story/news/nation-now/2017/04/11/yes-your-grandmother-having-sex/100122980/
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Post by baza on Jul 4, 2017 22:39:56 GMT -5
I am wracking my brains to try and recall in my peer group any old farts like me (who were interested in sex in the past) who now - due to the passing of years - are now NOT interested in sex.
I have come up with zilch. Nought. Zero. Zip. Nada.
Even that sexless marriage couple I know (referred to in another comment elsewhere) are still interested, but not with each other.
There is one other chick (late 50's) who is not greatly interested in sex. But she, apparently was never greatly interested in sex.
I'd suggest that ones sexual interest doesn't alter much, if at all, as you age.
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Post by northstarmom on Jul 4, 2017 23:00:45 GMT -5
This part of the article is relevant for those who assume that as they age, they'll become too homely to find a partner. I've found it true for myself. I'm far more comfortable with my body at almost 66 than I was in my 20s, 30s, and 40s.
"Myth: There's no physical attraction
Sex goes beyond a superficial connection."When people get older, yes, they have saggy bodies and skin conditions," Davis said. "As we age, we tend to think that those things matter less. We tend to be more forgiving of ourselves and partners."Some people actually feel more comfortable in their skin as they age. A 2014 Gallup poll showed 66% of Americans 65 and older "agreed" or "strongly agreed" that they always feel good about their physical appearance.:
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Post by hopingforachange on Jul 5, 2017 8:46:52 GMT -5
northstarmom It also helps that you can't see without your glasses on.
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Post by snowman12345 on Jul 5, 2017 10:09:34 GMT -5
I did not read the article - but I saw it mentioned that PIV is good for the V. Does it mention if TIV (tongue in vagina) is good for the V? Just curious...
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Post by bballgirl on Jul 5, 2017 10:45:48 GMT -5
I did not read the article - but I saw it mentioned that PIV is good for the V. Does it mention if TIV (tongue in vagina) is good for the V? Just curious... The article didn't mention that but I can assure you it is very very good for the vagina! And the tongue!
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Post by WindSister on Jul 5, 2017 10:48:34 GMT -5
I am a huge fan of breaking myths because myths are ridiculous. Personally, I am fascinated by aging and the whole aging process. Not only am I fascinated by it, I plan on embracing it. Why dread something we can't control? That's just asking for a life of suffering. It makes no logical sense that we would all the sudden STOP wanting sex. Why that myth came into play boggles my mind. As far as attraction, yes, what you shared rings as truth to me already (I am in my 40s). The outer shell holds very little value to me as far as attraction goes. Of course, personal hygiene matters to me, but things out of our control (sagging skin, wrinkles, rolls, baldness, etc.) just don't matter to me. I find the human body beautiful and I am so thankful I am now able to enjoy nakedness with a man without feeling like I should cover up my imperfect body. I love getting older for that very reason right there. I wish I had this attitude when I was younger and actually had a smooth, curvy body. Youth really is wasted on the young. But getting older? Bring it on! And keep getting it on!
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Post by hopingforachange on Jul 5, 2017 10:50:31 GMT -5
Yes, the very important oral heath. Scientist are researching why the males in the study also appear to have much higher prostate health and reporting higher frequency of receiving oral sex.
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