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Post by mrslowmaintenance on Jun 21, 2017 12:29:08 GMT -5
This is a quiz that you and your partner take. The idea of the quiz is to learn more about what each other's fantasies are. The questions are answered separately and honesty is highly encouraged. At the end of the quiz only the matching answers are shown. I really like this because it was easy to see hat possibilities we matched on without feeling shamed of the things is gave a hard yes to and he said no to. There were actually some surprises in our results. My H is vanilla and he really really loves his vanilla. I love it too, but just as a lot of us around, I like more too! So there was actually a few things that came as a match that were really surprising and arousing. It opened up some conversation about some things to try in the near future. There are three levels of the test. The basic is the one we took, I did not want to scare him away after all there is an advanced level for those interested in more bondage and an advanced plus level! Now, you do have to be at a level of communication with your partner that they are willing to be honest and genuinely take the assessment without judgement and with honesty Have fun, oh and it is free mojoupgrade.com
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Post by h on Jun 21, 2017 13:32:44 GMT -5
Interesting! I may ask the W if she is interested in taking it. Basic level only of course. Don't want to scare her into shutting down.
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Post by northstarmom on Jun 21, 2017 19:10:06 GMT -5
It looks like a great quiz to take with someone who likes having sex with you.
I doubt it will interest refusers. After all, it lacks sex fantasies like, "watching a sitcom together while sitting on separate chairs" or "holding hands when we go out with friends" or "giving partner a peck on the cheek when we're going to be separated for a month...."
My refuser ex would have either looked terrified at the thought of taking it or he'd have said he'd take it, then he'd never get around to it.
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Post by lifeinwoodinville on Jun 21, 2017 19:24:00 GMT -5
I don't even have to ask my wife, I already know the answers. No, no, no, no, no, hell no, no, no, never in your lifetime, no, no, no, hahaha... no!
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Post by mrslowmaintenance on Jun 21, 2017 19:46:37 GMT -5
I'm sure there are a lot of refusers on here who are completely shut down and have completely shut down their spouse. However, I know there are a few of us on here that are trying to rebuild their sexual and emotion relationship with their partner.
I think this is a great way to open the conversation about the potential of new ideas without directly being shut down or looked at like you are crazy. You take the quiz separate and you cannot see the answers that didn't match (they don't even let you see what the questions were for mismatching answers) which leads to less embarrassment if they are not equally as adventurous in everything!
And, my H took it. I did it then handed him my phone and told him it was a sexual adventure quiz, I said answer it honestly because I cannot see your answers unless we agree. Was he hesitant? A little, but he really enjoys our sex as it is. Did he do it? Oh yeah, he was quite confused by a few questions though hahahahaha but, we found a few new things so I am happy 😁
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Post by lwoetin on Jun 21, 2017 21:06:14 GMT -5
I hope midget porn is not part of the quiz. Sounds interesting to try otherwise.
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