Post by seabr33z3 on Jun 21, 2017 7:56:19 GMT -5
2 nights ago H and I had a major bust up. He was supposed to have ordered a replacement sewage tank and kept telling me it was on back order. 2 days ago he again said it would be 6 months. I didn't believe him and phoned up to be told he hadn't ordered it. I was able to order it to arrive in 3 weeks.
I was so angry that he had lied and my feelings that I can't depend on him to do anything, intensified.
I went balistic and everything came pouring out. Unfortunately my young adult kids were in the house. They thought I was going to hit him which I would never do.
I just couldn't stop the flow of pent up frustration. At one point he said " are you saying our relationship is over? " I said " what relationship? We don't have a relationship. We have a piece of paper and share a house".
I told him that while I was trapped right now I couldn't guarantee being here after the kids left.
My point to this backstory is that the next day I felt like I had taken a feelgood drug. Something like the post orgasmic experience. The whole day I felt so at peace and every part of my body was relaxed.
I'm not sure if it was a release of Oxytocin or some other feelgood hormone, but while I was googling I found the article linked below.
The link is the point of the post, not my backstory. I thought it was an interesting perspective as to the possible refuser stance. An explanation as to the pointless " why?" that we all ask.
www.psychologytoday.com/blog/prefrontal-nudity/201401/the-problems-the-love-hormone
I was so angry that he had lied and my feelings that I can't depend on him to do anything, intensified.
I went balistic and everything came pouring out. Unfortunately my young adult kids were in the house. They thought I was going to hit him which I would never do.
I just couldn't stop the flow of pent up frustration. At one point he said " are you saying our relationship is over? " I said " what relationship? We don't have a relationship. We have a piece of paper and share a house".
I told him that while I was trapped right now I couldn't guarantee being here after the kids left.
My point to this backstory is that the next day I felt like I had taken a feelgood drug. Something like the post orgasmic experience. The whole day I felt so at peace and every part of my body was relaxed.
I'm not sure if it was a release of Oxytocin or some other feelgood hormone, but while I was googling I found the article linked below.
The link is the point of the post, not my backstory. I thought it was an interesting perspective as to the possible refuser stance. An explanation as to the pointless " why?" that we all ask.
www.psychologytoday.com/blog/prefrontal-nudity/201401/the-problems-the-love-hormone
