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Post by JMX on Mar 26, 2016 16:29:38 GMT -5
I wrote this just now on EP, but thought I would post it here as well - just to get an idea of how it works!
Me to H: If your daughters were married to someone exactly like you - would you think they would be happy and would you think they were (at least) being treated fairly?
Of course, he did not look up from his video game. Answered: "I don't know". He's playing the children's video game and, no, he is not playing with the children. He is playing by himself as a break for the five columns he entered preparing last year's taxes. The yard is knee high and I am about to go and mow it because I cannot stand it anymore. He has played video games or read a book since about 8 am this morning. And worked on the taxes for 30 minutes.
Why do I bother engaging him?
I am sure it has much to do with PMS (tmi). But he doesn't only ignore me - he ignores them too. I am annoyed I have to put up with this while we get out of debt before I can divorce.
My condo is under contract. Big changes coming. At least I won't have to mow the grass or clean a pool. I suppose I can put up with cleaning up after his colossal messes in the kitchen for however long it takes.
Thanks for listening to the rant. Just pissy today.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 26, 2016 18:31:47 GMT -5
You would think that would be a thought-provoking question to ask a refuser: "Do you think your child would be happy married to a person like you?"
However, I don't credit most refusers with that much consideration for other people's needs and feelings. No, not even their own kids (after some of the stories I've read in our group.)
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Post by JMX on Mar 26, 2016 21:40:43 GMT -5
You would think that would be a thought-provoking question to ask a refuser: "Do you think your child would be happy married to a person like you?" However, I don't credit most refusers with that much consideration for other people's needs and feelings. No, not even their own kids (after some of the stories I've read in our group.) Yeah. It is pretty clear he lacks introspection and/or insight.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 29, 2016 9:08:29 GMT -5
I think many Refusers are guilty of nothing more than marrying the wrong person, or getting married at all. I know my sex life was great until I got married.
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Post by sand5280 on Mar 29, 2016 18:11:06 GMT -5
But he doesn't only ignore me - he ignores them too. I had no way of quoting this, it is in my post in “Always my Fault.” I feel you are entitled to know, making sure I have my facts straight about two daughters. Sorry about repetition.
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