Post by baza on Jun 3, 2017 0:31:27 GMT -5
This post is to hopefully provoke some discussion about the risk you might be running of putting yourself in a WORSE situation should you choose to continue on the stay route.
The best available evidence comes from those members who HAVE chosen the stay option, and lived to tell the tale, be it a good or bad tale.
Now personally, I have been a member of the old EP/ILIASM group from Feb 2009, and this current group since. That's 8+ years of reading God knows how many stories and comments there-on. Of these, thousands and thousands are from people who have stayed in their ILIASM shitholes and who have attested first hand about their outcomes.
What they attest to is that in the long term the pain is pretty constant apart from the odd "spike"in the pain level at times- and (less commonly) - a reduction in the pain level when "re-set sex" is applied.
But for the most part, your risk of ongoing pain is extraordinarily high.
But *usually*, it doesn't get worse, it just goes on and on.
Your risk of the pain getting worse is not that high.
It is really the accumulating effect of the ongoing pain level that are problematic.
However, the pain IS endurable.
The vast majority of members attest to this as they choose the (perfectly legitimate) staying option over the other (also perfectly legitimate options) of cheating or leaving.
The pain of staying won't kill you.
Disclaimer
I am an escapee.
(was once a stayer)
If you want my personal opinion about my personal experience as a stayer I'd be happy to give it, but it isn't really relevant to the above observations.
Addendum.
Your real risk (and I am editorialising here) is what you might be missing out on in life whilst you stay in your ILIASM deal.
And this is really only a theoretical risk, and really only applicable if you harbour some desire for enhanced happiness in your life.
The best available evidence comes from those members who HAVE chosen the stay option, and lived to tell the tale, be it a good or bad tale.
Now personally, I have been a member of the old EP/ILIASM group from Feb 2009, and this current group since. That's 8+ years of reading God knows how many stories and comments there-on. Of these, thousands and thousands are from people who have stayed in their ILIASM shitholes and who have attested first hand about their outcomes.
What they attest to is that in the long term the pain is pretty constant apart from the odd "spike"in the pain level at times- and (less commonly) - a reduction in the pain level when "re-set sex" is applied.
But for the most part, your risk of ongoing pain is extraordinarily high.
But *usually*, it doesn't get worse, it just goes on and on.
Your risk of the pain getting worse is not that high.
It is really the accumulating effect of the ongoing pain level that are problematic.
However, the pain IS endurable.
The vast majority of members attest to this as they choose the (perfectly legitimate) staying option over the other (also perfectly legitimate options) of cheating or leaving.
The pain of staying won't kill you.
Disclaimer
I am an escapee.
(was once a stayer)
If you want my personal opinion about my personal experience as a stayer I'd be happy to give it, but it isn't really relevant to the above observations.
Addendum.
Your real risk (and I am editorialising here) is what you might be missing out on in life whilst you stay in your ILIASM deal.
And this is really only a theoretical risk, and really only applicable if you harbour some desire for enhanced happiness in your life.
