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Post by McRoomMate on May 31, 2017 16:18:08 GMT -5
Cuddling is just one of the many forms of INTIMACY that glue a healthy loving couple together.
Heck we could call this "I Live in a Cuddless Marriage" - sure as hell could have said that about my last "ILIACM"?
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Post by wewbwb on May 31, 2017 16:18:46 GMT -5
Great, this means I'm going to be sad, sick, anxious, depressed, and...what was that last one?  haha Human touch is so important, it really does release endorphins and leads to positive, life-affirming feelings. Those cuddle party folks are on to something!   |
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Post by shamwow on May 31, 2017 16:25:34 GMT -5
Great, this means I'm going to be sad, sick, anxious, depressed, and...what was that last one? haha Human touch is so important, it really does release endorphins and leads to positive, life-affirming feelings. Those cuddle party folks are on to something! "Someone" is usually the man. If not? Run like hell... |
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Post by Venus Erotes on May 31, 2017 22:33:59 GMT -5
"Someone" is usually the man. If not? Run like hell... Unless you're into men....  |
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Post by Venus Erotes on May 31, 2017 22:34:38 GMT -5
I remember a post on EP that talked about a hug business. Was quite the thread!
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Post by TMD on May 31, 2017 22:44:14 GMT -5
Great, this means I'm going to be sad, sick, anxious, depressed, and...what was that last one? haha Human touch is so important, it really does release endorphins and leads to positive, life-affirming feelings. Those cuddle party folks are on to something!  photo upload without registrationanother version of "cuddling." |
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Post by h on Jun 1, 2017 7:31:08 GMT -5
I can't handle the cuddling without the sex. If it's been a long time and I know that it will still be a long time away, I don't want to cuddle. It's like torture to me. Like dangling a steak in front of a starving person and then throwing it away without so much as a taste.
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Post by hopingforachange on Jun 1, 2017 7:43:46 GMT -5
My W reduced/ stopped cuddling since it often lead to sex.
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Post by greatcoastal on Jun 1, 2017 7:59:14 GMT -5
My W reduced/ stopped cuddling since it often lead to sex. I stopped communicating, complimenting, words of affirmation, acts of service, because I would expect at least a cuddle. Cuddling does mostly lead to sex. The only crumb I would receive was a quick out the door peck of a kiss. Or a brief "thank you" after heavy hands on massaging, as she took it all in , giving nothing in return, and falling asleep. |
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Post by tamara68 on Jun 2, 2017 3:53:11 GMT -5
A few years after the last attemtps having sex (back in 2001), all touch gradually disappeared. It was very sad and eventually he was just nothing more than a visual and (very) audible being. So it was a shock when he touched my shoulder about 2 years ago. I didn't appreciate it.
If you can't touch your spouse, or if you don't even feel comfortable with it, there is no point in sharing a life with somebody like that.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 6, 2017 18:00:16 GMT -5
I had a sexless year where we still cuddled. I can't believe I missing even that.
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haha
