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Post by Dan on May 30, 2017 15:11:33 GMT -5
Not a surprise to members here: touch -- such as cuddling -- is actually healthy. 4 Reasons a Cuddle a Day Keeps the Doctor Away cuddlist.com/cuddlist_blog/4-reasons-cuddle-day-keeps-doctor-away/(Tongue-in-cheek: Then again, since this research is being promulgated by the organization that promotes "cuddle parties", maybe it is not to be trusted. Who knows: maybe these scientists are in the pocket of Big Cuddle...  ) UPDATE: posting link to an earlier thread regarding " Cuddle Parties" |
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Post by eternaloptimism on May 30, 2017 15:21:03 GMT -5
Not a surprise to members here: touch -- such as cuddling -- is actually healthy. 4 Reasons a Cuddle a Day Keeps the Doctor Away cuddlist.com/cuddlist_blog/4-reasons-cuddle-day-keeps-doctor-away/(Tongue-in-cheek: Then again, since this research is being promulgated by the organization that promotes "cuddle parties", maybe it is not to be trusted. Who knows: maybe these scientists are in the pocket of Big Cuddle... ) I must remember to come back to this. Can't read it just now.....am soooo missing loving cuddles 😥 |
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Post by bballgirl on May 30, 2017 15:25:18 GMT -5
Yeah I miss having a man to do that with.
I do that with my children but it's different.
Sigh
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Post by wewbwb on May 30, 2017 15:31:37 GMT -5
Is it wrong that I'm hard reading this?
Asking for a friend.
My penis.
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Post by misssunnybunny on May 30, 2017 16:20:36 GMT -5
Great, this means I'm going to be sad, sick, anxious, depressed, and...what was that last one?  haha Human touch is so important, it really does release endorphins and leads to positive, life-affirming feelings. Those cuddle party folks are on to something! |
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Post by petrushka on May 30, 2017 16:26:23 GMT -5
.... always open to cuddly ideas.
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Post by mrslowmaintenance on May 30, 2017 19:29:16 GMT -5
Cuddles are the best.
I am thankful I still get those. I need them so much.
Snuggling kids is great, but I agree that it is just not the same. However, tiny human snuggles are always full of love and there is a great comfort in that.
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Post by eternaloptimism on May 30, 2017 23:57:26 GMT -5
Cuddles are the best. I am thankful I still get those. I need them so much. Snuggling kids is great, but I agree that it is just not the same. However, tiny human snuggles are always full of love and there is a great comfort in that. Somehow, snugs with kids always end with an injury of some sort. I.e. Elbow in the face or a kick in the boob. They just fling that love right at ya with no concern for personal safety ha ha. |
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Post by nolongerlonely on May 31, 2017 2:11:18 GMT -5
I miss those too. cuddled daughter this morning to say good bye but not the same at all......sigh
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Post by WindSister on May 31, 2017 9:18:59 GMT -5
The importance of human touch is amazing. I remember the first time I was with someone after my 10 year drought, the man kissed my wrist after we were both breathless from sex and it made me freaking cry. My wrist had never been kissed before and it felt amazing. Might sound weird, but it was so memorable. My husband rubs my back as we drift off to sleep - that still feels amazing to me, too. It's all important, I don't understand non-affectionate people.
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Post by shamwow on May 31, 2017 12:53:24 GMT -5
Only way my wife would cuddle with me is if I clubbed her like a baby seal and draped her unconscious body over mine.
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Post by WindSister on May 31, 2017 13:42:33 GMT -5
Only way my wife would cuddle with me is if I clubbed her like a baby seal and draped her unconscious body over mine. Oh my.... now that is a visual..... My ex would drape his ungodly heavy, lifeless, cold arm over me to which I would have to instruct him, "Now SQUEEZE".... but even that just felt all wrong. |
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Post by shamwow on May 31, 2017 13:49:18 GMT -5
Only way my wife would cuddle with me is if I clubbed her like a baby seal and draped her unconscious body over mine. Oh my.... now that is a visual..... My ex would drape his ungodly heavy, lifeless, cold arm over me to which I would have to instruct him, "Now SQUEEZE".... but even that just felt all wrong. Sounds like your ex and my STBX would be perfect for each other... |
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Post by WindSister on May 31, 2017 13:51:51 GMT -5
Oh my.... now that is a visual..... My ex would drape his ungodly heavy, lifeless, cold arm over me to which I would have to instruct him, "Now SQUEEZE".... but even that just felt all wrong. Sounds like your ex and my STBX would be perfect for each other... That's just it... he met his next missus from a sex dating site. The world makes no sense!! She must like sex with statues (oh, that was mean and cold but I will leave it). |
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Post by shamwow on May 31, 2017 13:57:55 GMT -5
Sounds like your ex and my STBX would be perfect for each other... That's just it... he met his next missus from a sex dating site. The world makes no sense!! She must like sex with statues (oh, that was mean and cold but I will leave it). For reasons I won't go into, it is unlikely my wife will do similar, but I totally reserve the right to be wrong on that. I honestly hope that she does find someone whose drives are more in line with her. Perhaps someone with low T. That isn't intended to be mean, but what I really think would be a good match for her. |
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