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Post by tamara68 on May 21, 2017 8:35:37 GMT -5
thefullmoon creepy... stbx found it necessary too to remind me of things I needed to do. (walking barefoot in the house was dirty though, and strictly forbidden) WTF? Does he demand wearing shoes in the house? My STBX always puts her shoes on the kitchen countertops and thinks nothing of it, and I honestly can't recall a single time seeing her wash her hands before preparing a meal or hearing the faucet run at home after she has gone to the bathroom, yet she was revolted if I licked my fingertips to wet them before rubbing her nipples or clitoris and somehow in her mind that was different then me directly licking said lady parts. Oh, and she doesn't mind the dogs licking her face and mouth, even when they just finished licking their ass; however, try to give her a kiss after going down on her, and she will quickly turn away and start throwing fists. I questioned my own sanity when having conversations like these with her as I figured one of us must be crazy. 😜 😝 My stbx would have some serious issues with your stbx. Shoes remain on the floor at all times. Hands need to be washed very well before preparing food and after use of the bathroom. licking fingers is disgusting, so your stbx gets credits for that. Licking lady parts is revolting, almost as much as letting a dog lick someones face. French kissing is disgusting and after going down on a woman (he won't even know that expression) is even more filthy. And about the feet, they were only meant to be bare in bed or in the shower. Never stand on the floor. So when taking off shoes, step over on slippers without touching the floor. And after taking a shower, step on a towel and after drying, step in clean slippers. If one would touch the dirty floor, feet need to be cleaned all over again. I can fill a lot of pages with descriptions of all his procedures. |
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Post by JonDoe on May 21, 2017 8:40:19 GMT -5
tamara68 I can't help but wonder what are his rules at the pool / beach? 😂
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Post by tamara68 on May 21, 2017 9:10:39 GMT -5
tamara68 I can't help but wonder what are his rules at the pool / beach? 😂 He doesn't need rules for that, because he doesn't go there. |
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Post by thefullmoon on May 21, 2017 11:47:57 GMT -5
WTF? Does he demand wearing shoes in the house? My STBX always puts her shoes on the kitchen countertops and thinks nothing of it, and I honestly can't recall a single time seeing her wash her hands before preparing a meal or hearing the faucet run at home after she has gone to the bathroom, yet she was revolted if I licked my fingertips to wet them before rubbing her nipples or clitoris and somehow in her mind that was different then me directly licking said lady parts. Oh, and she doesn't mind the dogs licking her face and mouth, even when they just finished licking their ass; however, try to give her a kiss after going down on her, and she will quickly turn away and start throwing fists. I questioned my own sanity when having conversations like these with her as I figured one of us must be crazy. 😜 😝 My stbx would have some serious issues with your stbx. Shoes remain on the floor at all times. Hands need to be washed very well before preparing food and after use of the bathroom. licking fingers is disgusting, so your stbx gets credits for that. Licking lady parts is revolting, almost as much as letting a dog lick someones face. French kissing is disgusting and after going down on a woman (he won't even know that expression) is even more filthy. And about the feet, they were only meant to be bare in bed or in the shower. Never stand on the floor. So when taking off shoes, step over on slippers without touching the floor. And after taking a shower, step on a towel and after drying, step in clean slippers. If one would touch the dirty floor, feet need to be cleaned all over again. I can fill a lot of pages with descriptions of all his procedures. OMG! Even I, with my extreme level of patience would run a long time ago....he is mental. You deserve a medal! How did you managed to stay so long?! |
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Post by wewbwb on May 21, 2017 13:27:04 GMT -5
WTF? Does he demand wearing shoes in the house? My STBX always puts her shoes on the kitchen countertops and thinks nothing of it, and I honestly can't recall a single time seeing her wash her hands before preparing a meal or hearing the faucet run at home after she has gone to the bathroom, yet she was revolted if I licked my fingertips to wet them before rubbing her nipples or clitoris and somehow in her mind that was different then me directly licking said lady parts. Oh, and she doesn't mind the dogs licking her face and mouth, even when they just finished licking their ass; however, try to give her a kiss after going down on her, and she will quickly turn away and start throwing fists. I questioned my own sanity when having conversations like these with her as I figured one of us must be crazy. 😜 😝 My stbx would have some serious issues with your stbx. Shoes remain on the floor at all times. Hands need to be washed very well before preparing food and after use of the bathroom. licking fingers is disgusting, so your stbx gets credits for that. Licking lady parts is revolting, almost as much as letting a dog lick someones face. French kissing is disgusting and after going down on a woman (he won't even know that expression) is even more filthy. And about the feet, they were only meant to be bare in bed or in the shower. Never stand on the floor. So when taking off shoes, step over on slippers without touching the floor. And after taking a shower, step on a towel and after drying, step in clean slippers. If one would touch the dirty floor, feet need to be cleaned all over again. I can fill a lot of pages with descriptions of all his procedures. So golden showers are a no? Asking for a friend. |
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Post by tamara68 on May 21, 2017 14:10:25 GMT -5
wewbwb my stbx will not know that expression. He'd think you were referring to D Trump's interior decoration lol And if he did know what it meant, naturally that was disgusting in his view too.
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Post by hopingforachange on May 21, 2017 14:40:41 GMT -5
WTF? Does he demand wearing shoes in the house? My STBX always puts her shoes on the kitchen countertops and thinks nothing of it, and I honestly can't recall a single time seeing her wash her hands before preparing a meal or hearing the faucet run at home after she has gone to the bathroom, yet she was revolted if I licked my fingertips to wet them before rubbing her nipples or clitoris and somehow in her mind that was different then me directly licking said lady parts. Oh, and she doesn't mind the dogs licking her face and mouth, even when they just finished licking their ass; however, try to give her a kiss after going down on her, and she will quickly turn away and start throwing fists. I questioned my own sanity when having conversations like these with her as I figured one of us must be crazy. 😜 😝 My stbx would have some serious issues with your stbx. Shoes remain on the floor at all times. Hands need to be washed very well before preparing food and after use of the bathroom. licking fingers is disgusting, so your stbx gets credits for that. Licking lady parts is revolting, almost as much as letting a dog lick someones face. French kissing is disgusting and after going down on a woman (he won't even know that expression) is even more filthy. And about the feet, they were only meant to be bare in bed or in the shower. Never stand on the floor. So when taking off shoes, step over on slippers without touching the floor. And after taking a shower, step on a towel and after drying, step in clean slippers. If one would touch the dirty floor, feet need to be cleaned all over again. I can fill a lot of pages with descriptions of all his procedures. Did he burn the sheets of you were off your cycle by a day and messed up the sheets? Or just soak them in bleach over night? |
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Post by tamara68 on May 21, 2017 15:46:03 GMT -5
Whenever bleach was needed, it was my job to handle it. He was too tender for the fumes and feel of it. And when the sheets got messed up in any way, they had to be changed immediately. Also for very minimal dirt. For instance when tossing and turning while sleeping, made the duvet slide from the bed and touch the floor. Alarm! any dust particle was a huge danger, that part of the duvet should not be touched under any circumstance! Even though the floor was mopped every evening so there wasn't much dust there. But germs can't be seen so there was no point in arguing about it. |
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Post by greatcoastal on May 21, 2017 15:56:33 GMT -5
And what was the abandoned apartment like when you went back to it? Spotless? A place for everything, and everything in it's place? Or was that all your job too?
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Post by tamara68 on May 21, 2017 15:58:50 GMT -5
My stbx would have some serious issues with your stbx. Shoes remain on the floor at all times. Hands need to be washed very well before preparing food and after use of the bathroom. licking fingers is disgusting, so your stbx gets credits for that. Licking lady parts is revolting, almost as much as letting a dog lick someones face. French kissing is disgusting and after going down on a woman (he won't even know that expression) is even more filthy. And about the feet, they were only meant to be bare in bed or in the shower. Never stand on the floor. So when taking off shoes, step over on slippers without touching the floor. And after taking a shower, step on a towel and after drying, step in clean slippers. If one would touch the dirty floor, feet need to be cleaned all over again. I can fill a lot of pages with descriptions of all his procedures. OMG! Even I, with my extreme level of patience would run a long time ago....he is mental. You deserve a medal! How did you managed to stay so long?! I deserve a medal for stupidity. I had the feeling it was my duty to stay. And I didn't have the courage to leave or saw the possibilities for leaving before. I felt sorry for him. |
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Post by thistooshallpass on May 21, 2017 16:02:17 GMT -5
I have been feeling down for the past weeks. Feeling stressed and mad and (almost) hopeless. Today I bought some summer shoes. And now I am sitting on my balcony with my feet on the chair. Two horrible things according to my stbx. Open shoes are dirty and feet on the chair are dirty. Shoes on a chair are despicable. It lightens me up a little to behave this (or even worse.. .) Outrageous   There are people in the world that would also consider toe licking and/or sucking to be horribly disgusting. I'm not one of them. Those are some delicious looking toes you got there. Just sayin' :-) |
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Post by tamara68 on May 21, 2017 16:03:58 GMT -5
And what was the abandoned apartment like when you went back to it? Spotless? A place for everything, and everything in it's place? Or was that all your job too? Dirty. He has been cleaning only the parts that were used the most but other places have collected a lot of dust. He has not bothered to throw away all the garbage. A lot was in bags on the balcony. Old garden furniture left behind. The kitchen sink was dirty, there was still food left in the fridge.  |
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Post by tamara68 on May 21, 2017 16:05:42 GMT -5
I have been feeling down for the past weeks. Feeling stressed and mad and (almost) hopeless. Today I bought some summer shoes. And now I am sitting on my balcony with my feet on the chair. Two horrible things according to my stbx. Open shoes are dirty and feet on the chair are dirty. Shoes on a chair are despicable. It lightens me up a little to behave this (or even worse.. .) Outrageous There are people in the world that would also consider toe licking and/or sucking to be horribly disgusting. I'm not one of them. Those are some delicious looking toes you got there. Just sayin' :-) Lol, thank you. Have been not licked so far yet  |
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Post by GeekGoddess on May 21, 2017 16:19:09 GMT -5
Enjoy your cute sandals! I was amazed about "small" things like for weeks or months after moving out. My Ex was nowhere NEAR as anal retentive authoritarian as your STBX but the freedom from his constant commentary, critique & criticism was incredibly obvious.
I was so glad to cook however I wanted, put furniture wherever I wanted, come & go as I wanted.
Kick your feet up wherever you like!!! It's your place!!
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Post by thistooshallpass on May 21, 2017 16:24:22 GMT -5
There are people in the world that would also consider toe licking and/or sucking to be horribly disgusting. I'm not one of them. Those are some delicious looking toes you got there. Just sayin' :-) Lol, thank you. Have been not licked so far yet It would be an honor and a priviledge to be the first. lol |
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