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Post by Deleted on May 5, 2016 11:38:55 GMT -5
On EP, I would put this story under the appropriate group title, but that's no more. So, I'm putting it here...because, I just need to express my thoughts.
As Sunday is approaching, I'm becoming more anxious each day. I'm experiencing so many emotions and find myself in tears and I cannot speak about it without crying.
See, I lost my mother two months ago. I had to make that horrible decision ....life support or let her pass, naturally. No person should ever have to make that decision and I cannot seem to erase those last horrible moments from my mind or heart. I hate that is my last visual of her.
I pray time will make it easier...
Big hugs. Those last few moments aren't her legacy. She lives on in your heart through the love she gave you and the person she made you.
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Post by Rhapsodee on May 6, 2016 0:19:50 GMT -5
On EP, I would put this story under the appropriate group title, but that's no more. So, I'm putting it here...because, I just need to express my thoughts.
As Sunday is approaching, I'm becoming more anxious each day. I'm experiencing so many emotions and find myself in tears and I cannot speak about it without crying.
See, I lost my mother two months ago. I had to make that horrible decision ....life support or let her pass, naturally. No person should ever have to make that decision and I cannot seem to erase those last horrible moments from my mind or heart. I hate that is my last visual of her.
I pray time will make it easier...
I'm so sorry. I understand how you feel. Such as decision will be in my future. I am very close with my mother. She is frail and has Parkinson's. I see her every three months and wish I could spend more time with her. Hugs
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Post by Chatter Fox on May 6, 2016 20:35:55 GMT -5
On EP, I would put this story under the appropriate group title, but that's no more. So, I'm putting it here...because, I just need to express my thoughts.
As Sunday is approaching, I'm becoming more anxious each day. I'm experiencing so many emotions and find myself in tears and I cannot speak about it without crying.
See, I lost my mother two months ago. I had to make that horrible decision ....life support or let her pass, naturally. No person should ever have to make that decision and I cannot seem to erase those last horrible moments from my mind or heart. I hate that is my last visual of her.
I pray time will make it easier...
Hugs for you. So sorry to hear of your loss.
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Post by Deleted on May 17, 2016 20:34:39 GMT -5
On EP, I would put this story under the appropriate group title, but that's no more. So, I'm putting it here...because, I just need to express my thoughts.
As Sunday is approaching, I'm becoming more anxious each day. I'm experiencing so many emotions and find myself in tears and I cannot speak about it without crying.
See, I lost my mother two months ago. I had to make that horrible decision ....life support or let her pass, naturally. No person should ever have to make that decision and I cannot seem to erase those last horrible moments from my mind or heart. I hate that is my last visual of her.
I pray time will make it easier...
Time will make it easier. You should feel good about making that decision of letting her go rather then making her suffer. As a nurse I have seen many people not able to let their loved one go due to some issues they have, or unresolved issues between them. We are never ready to let someone go but we have to. You did the best thing for your mother. I wish and hope that you realize that. Then you will be able to grieve and have only the memories that you cherish. I had to make that decision for my sister, a long time ago. Professionally I have "unhooked" many people. I never felt bad because I knew it was the best thing.
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