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Post by bran127 on May 1, 2017 18:49:11 GMT -5
I am new here and was wondering what exactly outsourcing means. Is a f buddy or someone in a similar situation where you both can give each other what they need with no strings attached? Just curious because I am starting to explore my options.
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Post by thefullmoon on May 1, 2017 19:12:08 GMT -5
I am new here and was wondering what exactly outsourcing means. Is a f buddy or someone in a similar situation where you both can give each other what they need with no strings attached? Just curious because I am starting to explore my options. It means to get sex, intimacy, love, desire and everything else you don't get in your marriage somewhere else...some just need a simple relief, the others look for more... It works differently for everyone.. |
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Post by bran127 on May 1, 2017 19:49:56 GMT -5
Kind of what I thought. Thanks for clarifying. Are there places people can go to find someone? Specifically someone going through the same thing? I think someone going through it will understand my needs and vice versa. It's a big decision, and it will take a lot of thought, but masurbating isn't enough. I need physical touch,etc. I am longing for it. Fantasizing about it all the time because I can't satisfy my needs. on the flip side, if I did it my world could fall a part and it may not be worth it. A lot to think about.....
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Post by baza on May 2, 2017 3:28:18 GMT -5
"Outsourcing" essentially equals "rooting some person other than your spouse".
And that's ALL it means.
It ain't right or wrong, it ain't a moral issue (although some people may argue otherwise) .
It is something some people engage in.
For some it may equate with seeking a brand new primary relationship.
For some it is just a matter of having a stray root.
Whatever *you* think it is, is correct - for *you*.
The fall out from engaging in this (perfectly valid choice) can however, have explosive and unforseen consequences.
For that reason, it is NOT something to do in a half arsed manner.
Check it out fully to see if it a good fit for you, and whether you can handle the potential negative outcomes of your choice.
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Post by novembercomingfire on May 2, 2017 8:18:53 GMT -5
Personally, although i am not able to do so, i recommend outsourcing if only in the sense of self-validation and fulfillment. Reclaim your sexuality and autonomy. I would certainly do so if it were possible.
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Post by McRoomMate on May 2, 2017 8:25:39 GMT -5
"Outsourcing" essentially equals "rooting some person other than your spouse". And that's ALL it means. It ain't right or wrong, it ain't a moral issue (although some people may argue otherwise) . It is something some people engage in. For some it may equate with seeking a brand new primary relationship. For some it is just a matter of having a stray root. Whatever *you* think it is, is correct - for *you*. The fall out from engaging in this (perfectly valid choice) can however, have explosive and unforseen consequences.For that reason, it is NOT something to do in a half arsed manner. Check it out fully to see if it a good fit for you, and whether you can handle the potential negative outcomes of your choice. Concur with that definition. Particular focus on the "explosive and unforeseen consequences" - well maybe not "unforeseen" just tweek it it to "unintended". I went into Outsourcing for Reason X and got a cosmic smack by the Universe/God with Consequence Y - I thought it could not happen but it did. Also be very very wary of Sexually Transmitted Diseases - that can be a big risk factor too. God forbid you pass it on to your H/W during one of the rare moments you might still be having together. On the other end of the spectrum is "FALLING IN LOVE" and I mean mad passionate love like you see in movies. It is freaking real and can happen. All covered by "Explosive" - though most will just be fine - with going for X and getting X (you pick the X) but "outsourcing" has limitless potential and possibilities that I discovered and the Marquis de Valmont said "Are out of my control." Excellent thread! |
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