jgb
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Post by jgb on Apr 28, 2017 19:30:22 GMT -5
My wife and I are in the process of selling our house and downsizing. Kids are grown...house too big...etc, etc. I bought this house in 2006. Was standing in our bedroom, taking inventory of what we would be moving and what we would be getting rid of, and it occurred to me that we have never had sex in this house. More than ten years...
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appleaday
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Post by appleaday on Apr 28, 2017 20:16:56 GMT -5
So sorry to hear that, I can't even imagine 10 years. We bought our home last year and there has been no intimacy in our new home. I don't know your situation, if you are staying, leaving, outsourcing, etc. but I just don't think you should have to live that way. Reading these posts kinda terrifies me in a way, my marriage has been 3+ yeas sexless and the thought of that stretching into perpetuity is a sobering thought.
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Post by thefullmoon on Apr 28, 2017 22:34:07 GMT -5
So sorry to hear that, I can't even imagine 10 years. We bought our home last year and there has been no intimacy in our new home. I don't know your situation, if you are staying, leaving, outsourcing, etc. but I just don't think you should have to live that way. Reading these posts kinda terrifies me in a way, my marriage has been 3+ yeas sexless and the thought of that stretching into perpetuity is a sobering thought. It happens faster than you think...the more you stay the deeper you sink... One sexless year gives a pretty clear vision of the future marriage developement...after it is just counting...sexless months...years...decades... |
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Post by novembercomingfire on Apr 29, 2017 6:17:52 GMT -5
So sorry to hear that, I can't even imagine 10 years. We bought our home last year and there has been no intimacy in our new home. I don't know your situation, if you are staying, leaving, outsourcing, etc. but I just don't think you should have to live that way. Reading these posts kinda terrifies me in a way, my marriage has been 3+ yeas sexless and the thought of that stretching into perpetuity is a sobering thought. It happens faster than you think...the more you stay the deeper you sink... One sexless year gives a pretty clear vision of future marriage developement...after it is just counting...sexless months...years...decades... Or not counting anymore at all. It all kinda runs together eventually, like a vast grey expanse of nothing. |
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Post by hopingforachange on Apr 29, 2017 6:55:20 GMT -5
My wife and I are in the process of selling our house and downsizing. Kids are grown...house too big...etc, etc. I bought this house in 2006. Was standing in our bedroom, taking inventory of what we would be moving and what we would be getting rid of, and it occurred to me that we have never had sex in this house. More than ten years... Sounds like a good time to find your own place. |
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Post by dinnaken on Apr 29, 2017 7:12:47 GMT -5
Hi JGB,
I'm sorry to hear your story; I find it's the moments of reflection that are saddest.
There's no cure for that.
After 14+ years my wife and I will be living separately in 2-3 weeks. Is it significant that, in spite of a long list of repairs that are needed, the first thing I'm going to do is rip out the bedroom and replace EVERYTHING?
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Post by thefullmoon on Apr 29, 2017 7:41:40 GMT -5
Hi JGB, I'm sorry to hear your story; I find it's the moments of reflection that are saddest. There's no cure for that. After 14+ years my wife and I will be living separately in 2-3 weeks. Is it significant that, in spite of a long list of repairs that are needed, the first thing I'm going to do is rip out the bedroom and replace EVERYTHING? When I divorced my first husband I needed to move to a new country... Even speaking the same language seemed too painfull...everything reminded me of unhappy times.... |
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