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Post by seabr33z3 on Apr 15, 2017 6:21:09 GMT -5
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Post by merrygoround on Apr 15, 2017 6:39:05 GMT -5
Interesting article and if they're happy with the situation, then good for them! However they don't mention whether they have any sexual needs they take care of themselves - IE masturbation. I have to admit i looked into this myself as a possible lifestyle and just give up hope , but enjoy everything else. Not for me.
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Post by baza on Apr 15, 2017 6:41:29 GMT -5
It looks like a pretty good match to me.
I can't see why a mutually agreed sexless marriage couldn't be a rip roaring success.
This example of "Brian" and "Alison" is as sure as shit a way better example of a union than we see among our membership.
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Post by bballgirl on Apr 15, 2017 8:57:51 GMT -5
All about compatibility and communication. Sounds like they have it covered.
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Post by Copernicus on Apr 15, 2017 9:52:28 GMT -5
The key thing is that they *both* feel the same way, so neither one is trying to be the controller. It works for them - great, and I'm sure there are thousands more like them, who have *agreed* on the level of importance of sex in their relationship.
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Post by GeekGoddess on Apr 15, 2017 10:05:08 GMT -5
Interesting & lucky for them that they talk about it. In my SM, we got to a point where we couldn't even talk about choosing what to watch on tv without rancor & dispute (& god forbid the conversation be about how to spend money, or of all things, about sex).
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Post by shamwow on Apr 16, 2017 8:53:00 GMT -5
Nothing wrong with celibacy per-se.
I just took a different set of vows, and so did the missus.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 17, 2017 10:07:57 GMT -5
I really hope that my STBX finds someone as happy with celibacy as this couple is. Of course, she will need to find a man who is also very wealthy.
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Mutual SM?
Apr 17, 2017 10:27:59 GMT -5
via mobile
Post by novembercomingfire on Apr 17, 2017 10:27:59 GMT -5
I really hope that my STBX finds someone as happy with celibacy as this couple is. Of course, she will need to find a man who is also very wealthy. I'm pretty sure that your stbx is related to my partner. And i hope the same for her.
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Post by darktippedrose on Apr 17, 2017 10:49:04 GMT -5
if its compatible, then I don't consider it to be a sexless marriage.
happily celibate maybe
sexlessness, in my opinion is usually when one partner is thrilled with it, and the other one is not.
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