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Post by Dan on Apr 27, 2016 18:00:26 GMT -5
Wait… Women wear stuff other than cotton underwear? My wife has told me for years that all those Victoria Secrets ads are just fake.
I tried to research this topic once by asking women to show me their underpants, but all the women just gave me a blank stare. I guess they just hate science.
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Post by Frustrated1978 on Apr 27, 2016 19:00:04 GMT -5
You are turned off by the Granny Panties. Then your wife has succeded
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Post by Dan on Apr 27, 2016 20:20:52 GMT -5
And day-to-day, anyone can pry my cotton Jockey hipster-style underwear from my... Sorry... I stoped reading there and quickly raised my hand to volunteer. |
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Post by TMD on Apr 28, 2016 2:33:18 GMT -5
@smartkat - have worn hanky panky (thong) for years. They may be pricey, but last forever.
I must have an apple gathering bottom because that's where full-bottomed undies gather. I gave up on regular underwear years ago; I'm thong, throwing in bikini or boy shorts occassionally.
And... I love VS. But only since I've "reawakened." Before that, my unmentionables were... uh... unmentionable.
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Post by wewbwb on Apr 28, 2016 4:42:31 GMT -5
LITW really? I believe the kind of panties she's wearing is really unimportant as long as she is ready to take 'em off when needed! Would it be a more pleasant experience, if she wore enticing {insert here your lingerie of choice, based on perceived level of hotness}, parade in front of you and then leave you hanging? @smartkat those are really good choice!  So true..... |
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Post by mariposa43 on Apr 28, 2016 5:38:25 GMT -5
Can't add anything more about the granny panties to the already great things my fellow ladies have already said here, so let me come from this angle, or as the young people today like to say, "Imma just leave this right here":
My refuser (STBX) doesn't like lingerie. Couldn't have cared less the whole 16 years of our marriage whether I was wearing something sexy or pretty. And didn't reveal this till after marriage.
"If you wanna have sex, just get naked and get in the bed." Ummm....okay....
As one of my besties would say (language alert): OMGWTFBBQ?!?!?!
I made a choice at a certain point that I was gonna wear pretty underwear regardless. Because *I* want to.
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Post by tamara68 on Apr 28, 2016 5:48:04 GMT -5
I don't have any sexy underwear. One of the things on my to do list for post marriage.
If I would buy something now, my hub would most likely throw it away or wash it at 60C, so it would get ruined.
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Post by Dan on Apr 28, 2016 7:09:50 GMT -5
I will choose to cut her some slack in this department and not complain. I think you should not complain NOT out of being gracious to her, but just to avoid the the negativity in your brain. You'll also avoid the backlash (even if not fully conscious) from her. Reminds me of this quote that my brother had on a T-shirt as a kid: "Never try to teach a pig to fly: it wastes your time, and it annoys the pig." |
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Post by Dan on Apr 28, 2016 7:14:14 GMT -5
My refuser (STBX) doesn't like lingerie. Couldn't have cared less the whole 16 years of our marriage whether I was wearing something sexy or pretty. And didn't reveal this till after marriage. I don't have any sexy underwear. One of the things on my to do list for post marriage. If I would buy something now, my hub would most likely throw it away ... I have something to tell you. I'm not trying to make you feel bad. Consider it more in the vein of an "intervention": I'm telling you what you probably already know, but you might need to hear out loud from a friend anyways: Your husbands are seriously broken.
Good on both of you that you "wear it anyways" ( mariposa43) and plan to acquire some soon ( tamara68). |
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Post by mariposa43 on Apr 28, 2016 9:10:39 GMT -5
Thank you, @dan. And that's soon-to-be-ex-husband. ;-)
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Post by JMX on Apr 28, 2016 10:48:48 GMT -5
Is it weird that I prefer none? In college, I even went sans in skirts. It made me feel naughty and let my bits breathe. I may go back to that... Hmm
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Post by DryCreek on Apr 28, 2016 10:54:29 GMT -5
If my woman would wear it, I'd get a second job just to support her lingerie habit. Just saying...
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Post by Dan on Apr 28, 2016 21:58:56 GMT -5
If my woman would wear it, I'd get a second job just to support her lingerie habit. Just saying... Even when our budget was tight, I'd constantly point out we are underspending in the lingerie category. Didn't seem to help any more lingerie show up, however... |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 28, 2016 23:33:13 GMT -5
I have to 'pipe' in here... Granny panties are 100% banned with me. There are comfortable panties out there that are still sexy. For example ... Victoria Secret Hi Rise. Once you go granny you can't go back. Lol lol lol. Yes!! Say this again so I can like it again. Granny panties are equivalent to men's 'Fruit of the Loom' white full brief. ( huge turn off) Are those the gray ones with the stains? If so, those are bad. |
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Post by deborahmanning on Apr 28, 2016 23:47:56 GMT -5
Never thought I'd see the day I got good recommendations for comfortable lace panties on a SM support board! But those Hanky Panky ones look great.
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