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Post by bballgirl on Feb 26, 2017 17:32:19 GMT -5
Anyway, dynamics matter. The energy a couple shares matter. We were simply wrong, all wrong. Very interesting. Other recent cases have reported something similar. I've wondered how many of our spouses might find new life if pushed out of the nest. I think in so many cases they've resigned themselves instead of taking action to fix a bad match. My son told me he saw a condom in his dad's glove box. |
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Post by Deleted on Feb 27, 2017 14:49:01 GMT -5
Intelligent man in late 50s; good sense of humor; interested in everything; accomplished musician whose depression has caused him to stop playing. History buff, obsessed with geneaology. Knowledgeable about art and literature. Better taste in TV than any other man on the planet. I used to enjoy romantic behavior, kissing, caressing, making out, and sex (including light bondage and role play.) However, I had a couple of health issues. I am not confined to a wheelchair and am able to do physical therapy; but taking Rx painkillers is quicker and easier. And better than sex! If you have no libido, and a prescription for Percocet, we may be a match. Let's lay around for hours doing nothing in a dark apartment. Please don't turn on any lights! Oh my God, @smartkat this sounds horrible. Especially the last sentence...  It sounds soooo depressing... What an energy drainer that must have been! It's unbelievable to accept how the man you once loved, transformed into such an ameboid life form... Understandable, your anguish and hesitation to leave him... Thank you, Fiery. Sometimes I feel a bit out of place here. Everybody else's ex seemed to be mean enough to them, to give them no doubt about whether they were doing the right thing. Mine wasn't mean to me - he just withdrew into a dark cave, and couldn't catch the ropes I tried to throw to him. |
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Post by greatcoastal on Feb 27, 2017 15:16:44 GMT -5
Oh my God, @smartkat this sounds horrible. Especially the last sentence... It sounds soooo depressing... What an energy drainer that must have been! It's unbelievable to accept how the man you once loved, transformed into such an ameboid life form... Understandable, your anguish and hesitation to leave him... Thank you, Fiery . Sometimes I feel a bit out of place here. Everybody else's ex seemed to be mean enough to them, to give them no doubt about whether they were doing the right thing. Mine wasn't mean to me - he just withdrew into a dark cave, and couldn't catch the ropes I tried to throw to him. Dear friend, Just a gentle reminder, Doing nothing IS doing something. Saying NOTHING, is SAYING SOMETHING. You went above and beyond, and he put forth zero effort. That has "meanness" to it. Death by a thousand cuts. |
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Post by WindSister on Feb 28, 2017 10:33:17 GMT -5
Anyway, dynamics matter. The energy a couple shares matter. We were simply wrong, all wrong. Very interesting. Other recent cases have reported something similar. I've wondered how many of our spouses might find new life if pushed out of the nest. I think in so many cases they've resigned themselves instead of taking action to fix a bad match. I think so. In my case, he even admitted he was just "passive." He just "wanted everything to work out" but didn't actually DO anything to contribute to that. I think if I hadn't, we would still be miserable together today. Glad I took the action! |
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Post by greatcoastal on Feb 28, 2017 11:15:35 GMT -5
Very interesting. Other recent cases have reported something similar. I've wondered how many of our spouses might find new life if pushed out of the nest. I think in so many cases they've resigned themselves instead of taking action to fix a bad match. My son told me he saw a condom in his dad's glove box. I know what your thinkin' " It's just a pin hole!". Oh and they do fit like a glove. Is that where that name came from? |
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Post by worksforme2 on Mar 7, 2017 7:58:48 GMT -5
My son told me he saw a condom in his dad's glove box. Emergency ammo should he accidently come up on a water balloon fight.... |
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Post by novembercomingfire on Apr 15, 2017 8:15:18 GMT -5
Can I play if I am still attached?
Ideal woman seeking servant for intense servitude. You must wnjoy acts of service and provide everything. Do not expect anything in return, as I am not that kind of a person. You should be at least a millionaire, and no work schedule over 5 hours a week as i don't appreciate anything that may interfere with your housework. I am perfect, and people always tell me so, and I will expect you to be emotionally stable and secure enough to love me unconditionally. No sex. Ever.
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Post by GeekGoddess on Apr 15, 2017 8:30:28 GMT -5
These are getting sadder as the game continues.
Ok - I made HUGE strides in Acceptance of my Ex lately. Let me see if I can do a kinder version for him at this point.
Somewhat unhealthy male (diabetes under poor control, prostate cancer survivor, near-constant worrier) seeking listener & roommate. I cook & I do it well but it must be rewarded with accolades & praise, or I won't continue.
You must listen to, & remember, every bit of inane drivel that comes from my stream of consciousness jabbering, because it's funny as hell & smarter than anything you'll hear from tv. (I'm really smart. That's how I know this.)
Roommates means you clean things the way I like them & I'll inspect it when you're done. I give great (voluminous) feedback on the parts you missed, so you can strive to be as perfect as me.
I hope you like travel because I will go a lot of places without you & post hundreds of pics on FB. I don't want you to miss anything, so will tag you in every post (giving a lot of people the sense that you went with me - but I travel alone, unless you are paying for us both).
Evenings are filled with tv programs that belong in Idiocracy but they are so improved if you listen to my cutting commentary about them. I would rather criticize the shows than change the channel to something better. You will not touch the remote. Or me. You will not touch me. I will not touch you.
Additional requirements include: obligatory peck on the lips when leaving (but not when you get back), fat paycheck, loves to clean fish (not catch them).
Qualified? Please submit a profile for consideration. If I deign to, I will get back to you in between trips & tv shows.
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Post by McRoomMate on Apr 15, 2017 16:37:52 GMT -5
Independently wealthy entrepreneur Power Woman. I love fancy cars and expensive taste in jewelry and clothes. I have a big heart for my children and I am a wonderful mother. I can be generous with my assets and have been known to spoil and pamper my partners materially.
On week-ends and evenings my hobbies include binge watching TV shows on my laptop and playing video games on Xbox and latest games. I also am an avid sports fan.
Sex and plain vanilla only will be granted on a quarterly to yearly basis - if you remind me - and if you have not proved yourself inadequate and pathetic. Intimacy and any affection will be based on my pride and you proving your worthiness - unless you threaten to leave or divorce and then a reset period may occur briefly.
I also have been known to have multiple lovers on the side who turn into my next boyfriend or husband. If any problems might result in our relationship - they will be 100% your fault guaranteed (no exceptions!).
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Post by petrushka on Apr 16, 2017 10:26:02 GMT -5
Woman, modest, parsimonious, hard worker, looking for partner. I don't like to give my opinion on things. I don't like to answer my phone. I don't like to be at other people's convenience of reaching me. I make no demands, but when I want something, I am quite determined enough to act unilaterally. I expect you to have agreed, because you were supposed to divine and discern my intention by mental telepathy and have agreed to it. Even if you say you didn't. Discern, hear me, agree.
If you are lying in the street with a broken leg I will look after you. I will bake you a cake, knit you a pullover, I might even bring you a cup of coffee out to the street. Meanwhile, I will be busy doing my duties at the back of the house.
I will not cry in public, I will not bother you with my emotions. I will not bother you with what's going on in my head, as it relates to me, or you (stuff read on the bbc news site is ok). I love playing, but not THAT way. Emotions make me very uncomfortable. Passion is worse. And don't fucking praise me or my works in public, it is embarrassing.
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