dave
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Post by dave on Feb 19, 2017 12:01:55 GMT -5
so i read a post that struck me as very personal. after reading it, i couldn't help but feel dirty somehow. like i was looking into someones bedroom. now i'm one of those lurker guys, only posted a couple of times when ep was up, came here i think day one perhaps? but never got involved. until a few days ago, opened my yap to someones thread and now i feel a bit out of sorts. maybe some of you are thinking, "hey wait a second. who is this Dave guy that i.ve never heard from before, all of a sudden yakking like he just wants to hear himself talk" this being a community, needs input from everyone that can i should think, so i will with the right opportunity. i'm here because i'm in a shit hole just like most here are. i hate bleeding but its great when someone helps with the bandaids! sorry if i urked someone.
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Post by shamwow on Feb 19, 2017 12:59:58 GMT -5
so i read a post that struck me as very personal. after reading it, i couldn't help but feel dirty somehow. like i was looking into someones bedroom. now i'm one of those lurker guys, only posted a couple of times when ep was up, came here i think day one perhaps? but never got involved. until a few days ago, opened my yap to someones thread and now i feel a bit out of sorts. maybe some of you are thinking, "hey wait a second. who is this Dave guy that i.ve never heard from before, all of a sudden yakking like he just wants to hear himself talk" this being a community, needs input from everyone that can i should think, so i will with the right opportunity. i'm here because i'm in a shit hole just like most here are. i hate bleeding but its great when someone helps with the bandaids! sorry if i urked someone. Hey Dave, many here were "lurkers" before they posted the first time. It's not an easy thing to admit (even anonymously) that your marriage isn't what it may appear to the outside world. Kudos for posting, and let us know what your situation is. I can say from experience that this place has helped saved my sanity. Well, that and my motorcycle  |
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Post by richfairy72 on Feb 19, 2017 13:38:20 GMT -5
Dave, I had actually read a couple of your posts and thought your words very wise. On the whole people on here seem supportive and understanding. We are at different phases of realisation and exiting (or not), so don't worry, your words will be welcome x
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Post by bballgirl on Feb 19, 2017 15:29:35 GMT -5
Dave I was a lurker on EP for 2 years before I posted my first story.
Baby steps but we are a great support group.
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Post by cc on Feb 19, 2017 16:31:29 GMT -5
Saying it out loud to others is hard. I've been back here and away from here three times. I keep trying to make this crap work. I keep thinking he will wake up.
I understand your words.
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Post by McRoomMate on Feb 19, 2017 16:35:57 GMT -5
Lurking is encouraged. I have seen so many different views and opinions and always excellent practical good advice even if in the form of belly-aching.
What an amazing group on this Forum - I have searched a lot on the Internet - this is the best thing on it . . . and the last house on the cyber block.
Welcome / Lurk / Speak / Post / As you like.
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