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Post by Deleted on Feb 19, 2017 9:29:21 GMT -5
For my next birthday I would like my W (actually that should read "any woman" but let us just pretend for the moment), to go down on me, swallow and then we have some juicy slow love making.
I clearly don't expect to share the thought with the wife. So I am posting it here for no particular reason.
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Post by shamwow on Feb 19, 2017 9:59:29 GMT -5
I can't remember the last birthday fuck I had. Probably my ex to be honest. Not even a birthday guarantees some effort in the bedroom. I think mine was sometime back in the second Bush administration. On the other hand, thinking about any presidential administration probably isn't the best way to get in the mood  |
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Post by cagedtiger on Feb 19, 2017 14:41:55 GMT -5
This past birthday was two weeks after I had the first "talk" with my wife about the issues we were having, and told her if she didn't go to therapy with me, that I'd leave. So needless to say, it was a pretty awful weekend.
The year before that (2015), we were supposed to go the the amusement park near my hometown for the weekend. She told me Friday she didn't feel well so we'd go down on Saturday, then told me midday Saturday she didn't feel well. So I went down on my own Sunday for the day and hung out with my sister.
The year before that I went to a concert the day after my birthday with friends (she stayed home), then we went to a music festival together the following weekend. And there was no sex whatsoever, even though we camped out three nights.
Come to think of it, I don't think I've ever had sex with my current wife on my birthday, or even for a few days around it... Four years sex-free on my birthday now. There won't be a 5th.
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Post by leifericson on Feb 19, 2017 19:52:27 GMT -5
We usually do something to mark the day but nothing even remotely sexual. Its like every other day for the past 10 years.
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Post by darktippedrose on Feb 21, 2017 2:46:19 GMT -5
Damn. Apparently I'm not the only one. I feel like I'm not as spiritually evolved as my husband is, as I still snicker at stupid sexual things like a middle-schooler, and he does not lol
and my husband didn't even acknowledge that I had a birthday, so yeah ......
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Post by Deleted on Feb 23, 2017 11:02:16 GMT -5
Damn. Apparently I'm not the only one. I feel like I'm not as spiritually evolved as my husband is, as I still snicker at stupid sexual things like a middle-schooler, and he does not lol and my husband didn't even acknowledge that I had a birthday, so yeah ...... Please fight against this feeling. Just because you still have a sense of humor about sexual things does not make you less "spiritually evolved." It just means your H is kind of boring. |
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Post by lyn on Feb 23, 2017 12:38:52 GMT -5
I literally can't remember having sex on my bday with my current H. He always takes the day off - I always make the plans which invariably include partaking in an extremely strenuous outdoor activity. One that will exhaust me completely by the end of the day.
Just now realized this seems to be my MO a lot of the time.
Since I probably will not have exited by my next bday, already thinking about what extreme sport to try.
Now bday 2018? Will be a whole different story. Sigh.....
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Post by deadzone75 on Feb 23, 2017 23:41:04 GMT -5
I don't remember the last year I had sex on my birthday with my W. 2010 maybe? To be fair, she does make a pretty big deal out of my birthday, but at the end of the day, I spend it pleasuring myself just like any other day of the year.
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Post by deleted on Feb 24, 2017 2:58:10 GMT -5
I don't trip about it. My birthday hasn't been important to me since I was 12. I prefer the day comes and goes without any fanfare.
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Post by shamwow on Feb 24, 2017 16:27:21 GMT -5
I literally can't remember having sex on my bday with my current H. He always takes the day off - I always make the plans which invariably include partaking in an extremely strenuous outdoor activity. One that will exhaust me completely by the end of the day. Just now realized this seems to be my MO a lot of the time. Since I probably will not have exited by my next bday, already thinking about what extreme sport to try. Now bday 2018? Will be a whole different story. Sigh..... I'm same as you Lyn. Can't remember last time on birthday, and exit plan means my next opportunity is in 2018. Sounds like some sort of comet sighting or eclipse lol! I have a feeling 2018 will be a very good year, though. |
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Post by Chatter Fox on Feb 24, 2017 20:38:50 GMT -5
so Every birthday I've ever had as a married woman, has been sexless. Fun. Before it was sexless because my husband didn't believe in celebrating and now I do celebrate my birthday. I know I won't be getting sex, no chocolate cake, no nothing. Even my grandpa who has a hard time getting around sang me Happy Birthday lol. So, with an uninspiring spouse, how do others celebrate their birthday? How do you feel loved on your birthday when no one else really will? When I hear you say that you don't get chocolate cake or anything else it absolutely breaks my heart. That's just not right.  I'm so sorry to hear that. Sexless birthdays are one thing. Nothing on your birthday is a whole different level. Darktippedrose, if I could give only one heartfelt hug to one member on this site, I'd pick you. Your stories and posts always really tug on my heartstrings. I'm just not sure if you realize how hard you have it. I really really hope that you are able to someday free yourself from this situation you are in. In the meantime, I'm sending you strength and virtual heartfelt hugs a plenty. You really deserve them. |
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Post by lyn on Feb 24, 2017 22:47:05 GMT -5
I literally can't remember having sex on my bday with my current H. He always takes the day off - I always make the plans which invariably include partaking in an extremely strenuous outdoor activity. One that will exhaust me completely by the end of the day. Just now realized this seems to be my MO a lot of the time. Since I probably will not have exited by my next bday, already thinking about what extreme sport to try. Now bday 2018? Will be a whole different story. Sigh..... I'm same as you Lyn. Can't remember last time on birthday, and exit plan means my next opportunity is in 2018. Sounds like some sort of comet sighting or eclipse lol! I have a feeling 2018 will be a very good year, though. It sounds like 2018 could be the year for great, sexful, bdays shamwow. Keeping your eye on the prize and staying optimistic are key- |
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Post by dave on Feb 24, 2017 22:57:07 GMT -5
Birthday sex, ya right! thats a good one. where did you guys come up with that one???
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Post by RumRunner on Feb 26, 2017 10:33:22 GMT -5
Come to think of it, I have never had sex on my birthday. Mine is coming up and I will be lucky if she will even acknowledge it. Oh, but don't forget hers. What she will want is to go out to eat to a restaurant and for any other attention except for that gross little thing called sex. Party balloons and cake would due! I feel like I am married to a child!
Sex would be the best birthday present one could give, (unless it is to an assexual) I could only dream of a such a thing. But that would be asking for too much. Besides, for me there is nothing to celebrate.
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Post by darktippedrose on Feb 27, 2017 1:55:22 GMT -5
Beeman - I'm pretty shy. I still feel like blushing about people singing me "Happy Birthday". Usually I buy myself something, but there was too much chaos so I bought myself some cheese cake and a hot Philadephia sanwich. But yeah no birthday cake.
My relatives wished me a Happy Birthday. Before with my husband being super strict about birthdays, I didn't practice it but would still feel a bit sad about it.
So now my relatives sing it.
So yeah ... no cake, no sex, no hugs or kisses. And yes, I hope I get out one day soon too
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I'm so sorry to hear that. Sexless birthdays are one thing. Nothing on your birthday is a whole different level. Darktippedrose, if I could give only one heartfelt hug to one member on this site, I'd pick you. Your stories and posts always really tug on my heartstrings. I'm just not sure if you realize how hard you have it. I really really hope that you are able to someday free yourself from this situation you are in. In the meantime, I'm sending you strength and virtual heartfelt hugs a plenty. You really deserve them. 
