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Post by baza on Feb 12, 2017 17:01:20 GMT -5
He says - "well, I'll go and find someone else then,who does want me".
Unfortunately, I don't think you can take his threat to leave seriously, so it would be most unwise to adopt a policy of just waiting for him to leave. Chances are that he has played the leaving card without much thought, and - like most things he says - this will turn out to be bullshit too.
Best you take a very pro-active role in the situation. Usual things, legal advice etc as mentioned previously.
In the unlikely event that he meant what he said, you are still going to need your legal advice etc as mentioned above. Best you proceed with YOUR plans, as you can control that. What he does or does not do is out of your hands.
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Post by bballgirl on Feb 12, 2017 17:06:39 GMT -5
It really boils down to compatibility. You like sex, he doesn't. He needs to find a woman that doesn't like sex. You need to find a man that can rock your world!
If the relationship was solid and you did things together and enjoyed each other's company, I would say outsource to fill that need. However usually that's not the case, most SM's are shothole marriages.
I wish you the best in figuring out what you want for yourself.
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