justaguy
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Age Range: 41-45
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Post by justaguy on Feb 6, 2017 22:51:02 GMT -5
I didn't know if I should add to the welcome thread cause it's a little confusing, or just post. I decided to just post a hello.
44,married guy, been married 12 years but together much longer. Life has changed considerably for several reasons. The marriage has degraded to room mates because of a lack of intimacy and sex. It's a long story that involves many twists and turns so it's not something as simple as, "it just happened."
I'd like to turn it around, I still love her, and for the most part, we still work as a couple. It's now.... Well, it's still a lot of things in our way. What it comes down to is lack of interest on her part and lack of attraction on mine.
I feel like there's way too much to try to explain.
For now, this is just a hello.
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Feb 7, 2017 0:01:50 GMT -5
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Post by bballgirl on Feb 7, 2017 0:01:50 GMT -5
Welcome sorry you are here but it's a great support group. The fact that you still love her is a positive. Read on here a lot and post more on the SM thread area. You will get more responses as you share more.
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Feb 7, 2017 11:04:53 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Feb 7, 2017 11:04:53 GMT -5
Welcome and I hope it works out well for you. I assume you have told her very clearly that this will not work for you?
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Post by GeekGoddess on Feb 7, 2017 16:31:46 GMT -5
Welcome, justaguy. Sorry you're here & that you qualify but glad you found us. It sounds like you are already at a counter-refusal stage, which is common. Read up in the SM Issues forum. For comedy relief of the dark subjects handled there, check out the Lighter Side forum. This is a great community, filled with wonderful & witty people who really care about each other. Good luck navigating your deal.
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Feb 26, 2017 22:17:24 GMT -5
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Post by oside77 on Feb 26, 2017 22:17:24 GMT -5
Welcome. I've only been on here a couple days but find it very supportive. Hope you do as well.
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Feb 27, 2017 16:52:48 GMT -5
Post by Admin on Feb 27, 2017 16:52:48 GMT -5
FYI: Minor housekeeping matter: I'll probably merge these posts (and delete this one) in to the "Introductions thread" the next time I do Intro thread maintenance.
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