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thebaffledking Full Member Posts: 329 Age Range: 51-55	Just A Couple of Related Quotes for Conversation's Sake Feb 3, 2017 5:28:00 GMT -5 greatcoastal, bballgirl, and 2 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by thebaffledking on Feb 3, 2017 5:28:00 GMT -5
	In the betrayal of his love he awakened To face a world of cold reality

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Just A Couple of Related Quotes for Conversation's Sake Feb 3, 2017 5:53:51 GMT -5 greatcoastal, snowman12345, and 1 more like this

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Post by baza on Feb 3, 2017 5:53:51 GMT -5

Change is super difficult, as we see on here all the time.

Refusers find it incredibly difficult to change into engaged loving partners.
Refused find it incredibly difficult to change their marital status.

Whichever side of the coin you are on, change is indeed, very difficult.

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Just A Couple of Related Quotes for Conversation's Sake Feb 3, 2017 9:40:07 GMT -5 greatcoastal and thebaffledking like this

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Post by McRoomMate on Feb 3, 2017 9:40:07 GMT -5

Penny for your thoughts? Words are cheap.

ACTION is the order of the Day. Well thought out, planned action.

Yes, I know everyone has a fight plan, up to the point you get punched in the nose (Mike Tyson - heard it here).

I can confirm my "Comfort Zone" in this Loveless/ SM Marriage of Room Mates is to the point of unbearability. Rotten teeth only get pulled once it starts hurting profoundly.

And yes, scary, very much so, because I have been thru the Divorce Road before - it is PAINFUL - unavoidably so.

Such is the nature of the situation and the solution. Pain and charging a "fortified position". Yes it will hurt - many will be hurt - but the objective is Freedom and Happiness rather than slavery to fear and control.

mirrororchid: We've compared denier/refuser spouses to prison wardens. Dr. Psychmom has compared them to hostage takers and the unhappy spouse has Stockholm syndrome. Prisoners can't leave. Stockholm hostages don't because they want a good outcome for the captor. Sept 10, 2024 18:54:11 GMT -5

mirrororchid: Heard on a podcast: "Dating is where we present our best selves. Vulnerability is the opposite. Where we risk our partner knowing things that are imperfect. This is the way to forge the life partner bond." Sept 10, 2024 19:17:03 GMT -5

week5of35years: My Wife had 30 free mins before she had to start work this AM... I said.. "lets have a quick shag" and she said she was going to walk the dog instead.... Still work to do.... Sept 17, 2024 3:51:34 GMT -5

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Just A Couple of Related Quotes for Conversation's Sake

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Post by McRoomMate on Feb 3, 2017 9:40:07 GMT -5

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